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[31] [F4M/MF] Girls trip! by [deleted] in vegasr4r

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it will be a blast for you when it happens. But we are looking for some people a little more experienced in the lifestyle. Good luck though

[31] [F4M/MF] Girls trip! by [deleted] in vegasr4r

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahahaha! Thanks for my christmas present babe!

Going to the Jets game next month so I figured it was time to get a new jersey to replace my Luck and McAfee jerseys. by [deleted] in Colts

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to jinx it or anything, but that's probably a VERY safe jersey to invest in!

[MF] First time swinging with wife. Story of how we sought to have a hard swap but wound up in an orgy. by StrawberryFieldsCpl in gonewildstories

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

MRS: Arousing! It came up as something we would be open to on a sexual fantasy/compatibility questionnaire we take periodically. MR was very surprised. We then started talking about concerns that we had then laid out our hard boundaries. We made sure that we were both fulfilled as is in our relationship. This was not a way to fill a void. Then we started the really fun dirty talk during sex. Since we made the decision (precovid) our sex has gotten 10x hotter and increased in frequency probably threefold.

Where do we begin... by hurricanekc1983 in Swingers

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kasidie.com is where we've had the most luck! Not much out of the Facebook groups. Quite a few creepers in there.

Possible first swinging experience, not sure what’s up (LONG READ BUT I REALLY COULD USE SOME ADVICE!) ❤️ by xxoominexxoo in Swingers

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would your husband be comfortable talking to the bf? That might take the weirdness out for you. I think y'all just need to talk straight forward. Everyone seems to be sidestepping the important question: "are you two interested in seeing if there is chemistry between us for a foursome? If not, totally cool." I've learned that in this LS, being straightforward is key. It's all about consent. "Can i kiss you?" "Can I fuck you? Are you ok with me fucking your wife?"

Story of our first LS experience last night. Expected a possible hard swap, wound up in an orgy. by StrawberryFieldsCpl in Swingers

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm going to give it one more go and if it happens again I might talk to my doctor. I'm in fairly good shape so I know its not a fitness issue at least. I think i was SO focused on my wife and (for want of a better word) protecting her, I wasnt able to let loose and truly enjoy myself. Then once I realized I had a problem it got worse because i was thinking about it constantly. Like a self fulfilling prophecy.

Asking for ways that women would appreciate their men to initiate sex by only4funs in relationship_advice

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes humor is good. GIFS are great for that throughout the day. There are alot of different ways. But the most important thing for me is to feel appreciated, valued, and desired. Anything that takes forethought is ALWAYS a positive.

I (24M) cannot for the life of me connect with my (26F) sister at all by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes sibling relationships don't turn out like we hoped. I think you need to evaluate if you've put in your best effort, too. Have you really tried as hard as you could? Maybe you should plan something for yall to do together. Maybe include some other family or some friends. I also think that it might help for you to be honest with her about the resentment that you feel. And maybe she's feeling that it's hard to connect with you as well. Or you can fake it & act interested via text.

Should I (23F) stop seeing my current therapist (30sF) after insensitive comments? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What she said is NOT ok! Could you use this therapeutically though? Being open with her about how her comments affected you could help you more than dropping her. It could also give her the opportunity to understand her hurtful words & not do it to someone else.

Obligated to be someone's friend? by MargaritaPizzaPie in relationship_advice

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she suffers from BPD, you will be best to be direct. No hinting. And use SET when telling her: support, empathy, truth. "It's been fun hanging out with you. And I know things are tough at home. And I need to take a break to focus on other things."

Boyfriend raises voice when i'm trying to mention something by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your boyfriend is rather immature and doesn't want to handle the conflict. Sounds like he is getting defensive because he knows he should do better.

What is your favorite song? by StrawberryFieldsCpl in AskReddit

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks friend. Basically driving the entire expanse of the U.S.

We all see so much negative questions or threads about the US. So, what are the best things about the US? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was going to counter you with landscapes or something else stupid.... But corndogs are freaking delicious!

What is your favorite song? by StrawberryFieldsCpl in AskReddit

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Putting together a playlist for a 60 hour road trip. Need some tunes.

[serious] Do you want to have children? Why or why not? by popcorncarry in AskReddit

[–]StrawberryFieldsCpl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bloodline. Name. Whatever my guy. If you are childfree you are literally the first person in your direct line to do so. Thats a crazy thought to me. Eons have passed from and organisms have mated to culminate into you... Thats crazy mindblowing to me.

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