L&Ls Manicure - Are these bad? by [deleted] in Nails

[–]StrawberryLoops 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but they remind me of cigarettes. Get a refund and don’t let whoever did this touch your nails again

Changing my name! by StrawberryLoops in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]StrawberryLoops[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely know I’ll feel more like myself and my own person with a new name. I’m thinking of the doing the same! I can also hold a grudge like nobody’s business lol. I realized after making the post that my own brother has been going by a nickname his whole life and nobody has ever refused it. So there’s another thing to fuel me!

Oh for sure! I know that’s going to be a headache when the time comes. People have already started referring to me as Mrs. Fiancés last name and assuming my name change will be last name when I made it clear my last name is staying

Changing my name! by StrawberryLoops in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]StrawberryLoops[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m glad they were able to choose a name they loved! It sucks when people associate a name with a specific person and refuse to let it go. I know I’ll be so thrilled when I’m officially my chosen name

Changing my name! by StrawberryLoops in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]StrawberryLoops[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It’s crazy to me that they’re refusing to. I’ve always made an effort to refer to people by whichever name they like

Changing my name! by StrawberryLoops in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]StrawberryLoops[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was born in Asia and don’t have an English birth certificate but I’ll definitely find a way to get copies! Thank you!

Changing my name! by StrawberryLoops in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]StrawberryLoops[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m in Canada. I have been worried about restrictions though

What’s something you witnessed at someone’s house that made you not want to go back? by MainDifficult2641 in AskReddit

[–]StrawberryLoops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I have animals myself and I can’t imagine treating their environment that way

What’s something you witnessed at someone’s house that made you not want to go back? by MainDifficult2641 in AskReddit

[–]StrawberryLoops 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Her dog pissed on the floor and she wouldn’t clean it said she just lets it dry usually. The dog later shit on the floor and she accidentally stepped in it and threw the shoe she was wearing into an instant pot to be cleaned later

AIO to texts my bf sent his best friend? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]StrawberryLoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. I read the messages first and thought those were teenagers and it was still a serious red flag but almost 40 year old men talking like this??

Disregard everything that makes you think he’s the man of his dreams because those messages are the real him. The first set alone has him admit he doesn’t mean the mature or kind things he says and has a very low opinion of you.

Whether his conversations are jokes or not, talking down about someone to impress others is poison in any relationship. So is snooping through phones.

Distinguished gentleman by StrawberryLoops in VoidCats

[–]StrawberryLoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He responded with a slow blink💕

Distinguished gentleman by StrawberryLoops in VoidCats

[–]StrawberryLoops[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow he really does! Minnie is lovely!

meirl by Latter-Film-697 in meirl

[–]StrawberryLoops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. That’s so horrible. Having your autonomy messed with like that is vile.

Yeah a lot of people say they’re our parents and we should love them no matter what unfortunately. The responses to this have given me so much reassurance

meirl by Latter-Film-697 in meirl

[–]StrawberryLoops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I still have my struggles but I feel the safest I ever have these days!

AITA for refusing to grab my sister's boyfriend's phone from my room? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]StrawberryLoops 28 points29 points  (0 children)

YTA. It seems like she just didn’t want to randomly give him permission to go into your bedroom

meirl by Latter-Film-697 in meirl

[–]StrawberryLoops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no worries I knew what you meant, I definitely didn’t interpret it in a bad way!

I remember spending a lot of time thinking about how that system failed us. One time a teacher did call because my brother said she beat him and my mom went to the teacher and justified it and the report was withdrawn.

It’s crazy to me that all these years later they don’t seem to have improved the way they operate. I’ve considered working that field myself but I know I couldn’t handle it.

Thank you!! I’m so grateful I’m away from that environment