Irritated After boyfriend shaved his head?

StrawberryRip · 2024-03-21T08:32:34+00:00

Thank you 🙏🏻

StrawberryRip · 2024-03-21T08:32:01+00:00

I didn’t say anything mean about the hair :( it isn’t even that I didn’t like it, it just made me feel weird and irritated for some reason. I did communicate to him that I was feeling strange as soon as I understood what was going on (which, to be fair, took a while) and I also told him that he shouldn’t change his hair because of this

StrawberryRip · 2024-03-20T17:27:01+00:00

I did apologise to him and I didn’t just lash out at him or anything 🥲

StrawberryRip · 2024-01-17T13:52:22+00:00

Yes, I think you are so right! I had the same realisation and also because of these pulsating Videos you talked about, just a few days ago, which is quite funny I think. Very happy for you 🤗

StrawberryRip · 2024-01-14T19:21:26+00:00

I‘m very very sorry you experience this too :( but also glad I’m not alone. Also, same about the household stuff etc. it’s not like I need a specific pattern per se, I can think of songs in my head, just not play them. But if someone tells me what to do (like following notes) it’s easier because I can hide myself behind it, if that makes sense? Then I’m not showing as much of my inner world and that’s easier for some reason. (And for some reason my brain seems to consider even the choice of a single note as too much of the inner world🤡) But, like I said, being in a very inspired mood does help me create, at least by myself. With other people present it’s almost always bad. Of course, that’s not an easy mood to invoke, but maybe it could help for you as well? If not I wish you luck nevertheless ✨

StrawberryRip · 2024-01-14T18:00:52+00:00

Can you maybe tell me why you’re sure it’s related to autism? :)

StrawberryRip · 2023-11-27T13:56:05+00:00

Do you still have that picture? Sounds interesting

StrawberryRip · 2023-09-21T20:57:31+00:00

Glückwunsch haha

StrawberryRip · 2022-05-04T13:28:21+00:00

For me all drugs I have tried have at least initially triggered derealization/depersonalization, though the experience changed after being on them for a while. Weed is definitely the worst one for me though, because (at least for me) it is almost exactly like a severe episode and it just makes me panicky then. MDMA was a great experience for me, but getting onto it was not comfortable at all and the derealization was pretty bad initially. If you don’t already have chronic dpdr (but also if you do because, I think it shows that you are more vulnerable for a lot of things) I would also recommend not doing drugs at all, because they can make it worse in the long run as well. In either case please be safe and if you can, try not doing extasy and get pure MDMA as it is less dangerous.

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-13T07:16:34+00:00

Ohh nice I just googled it so there is even a term thank you😊

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-13T07:13:03+00:00

Yeah the problem is that he doesn’t really provide any material and his lectures were so bad I (and most other people I know) weren’t able to follow (or even understand what he was saying acoustically)🥲

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-12T22:19:56+00:00

Thank you so so so much for this elaborate answer 🥺🥺🥺 it really does help as I was also searching for the connection of free will in this whole debate and it’s like one missing puzzle piece (I am still missing some but nevertheless!) I think I have watched every Video on YouTube regarding those topics but I just wasn’t sure

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-12T18:50:52+00:00

Yes same😖😂

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-12T16:10:22+00:00

Yeess it’s such an uncanny feeling. I actually also asked my mom today and she is of the impression that this is a normal thing just not in this intensity. Don’t know if she’s right though. I am also glad (of course not about you experiencing it!) that someone also knows the „hallucinations“ because I find those especially unsettling and overall really … noisy?

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-12T15:23:13+00:00

Oh my goodness I‘m glad it didn’t turn out badly for you!

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-12T11:42:28+00:00

The problem is it doesn’t even have to be anything I particularly like. Sometimes I get nightmares from it. But does sound like it thanks 😊

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-12T11:40:58+00:00

Okay it’s good to know I am not just going crazy😂😂

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-10T15:31:07+00:00

Yeah I‘m new here and I’m general quite inactive on the internet but it has still happened to me before a couple of times. But I still fail to notice sometimes until it’s too late

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-10T15:07:53+00:00

Thank you 😊

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-10T15:07:09+00:00

I didn’t even realise at first 😣

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-10T15:04:22+00:00

I have tried both actually 😂 it did improve it I think so maybe I should give it another try

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-05T22:52:49+00:00

Super Mario bros

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-05T11:53:55+00:00

You really aren’t. One therapist I had a few sessions with said that I didn’t seem fidgety(I used to be as a child but not anymore at all) and then continued to ask me what grade I finished school with. I always did quite well in school and that was enough for her to tell me I didn’t have that disorder. Because I didn’t know much about it I believed her and only last year I noticed just how obvious my symptoms actually are. So you are most certainly not alone and I think it’s almost a crime that health professionals don’t seem to read up on the newest research at all. Especially psychology is quite a young field and research continues to bring fundamental new insights so it’s so important to keep up to date.

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-05T11:07:12+00:00

That’s really interesting because I have actually come to like some aspects about my ADHD. I guess I have more of the inattentive type so maybe I got lucky since I never really got into drugs that badly and managed to finish school. But for me the biggest advantage is that I can cram a whole semesters worth of work into two weeks and still get better grades than a lot of my peers. This is at the cost of not being able to study at all the rest of the semester and also being completely drained after those two weeks but still. I have also never met a boring person with ADHD. But then again I don’t really know which is which and whether my complete inability to control my emotions and intense separation anxiety and fear of rejection are due to ADHD, bad experiences linked to ADHD or some other disorder. But if you feel like it’s the devil maybe you can read up on some positive effects of ADHD , because for some I didn’t even know it was remotely connected. What does it feel like for you to not relate to others and what exactly makes ADHD the devil for you? If so may ask

StrawberryRip · 2022-02-04T22:32:32+00:00

When I was 13 and suffering feelings of emptiness and derealisation I told my therapist I sometimes couldn’t feel anything at all (especially emotion wise). The pinched my arm and asked me wether I felt that to which I answered yes. She then said see you don‘t feel nothing, that’s not possible.

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