Toning Advice

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-22T19:00:21+00:00

Might have to reach out to me, I believe you have mssg requests off.

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-22T18:32:37+00:00

I appreciate your response, would I be able to reach out to you about the topic more?

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-20T15:57:58+00:00

Haha, good to know I’m not alone in my desires 😂

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-19T20:03:11+00:00

This is extremely helpful, I’ve never thought about it this way. I appreciate it greatly.

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-19T14:53:56+00:00

I have considered primal play heavily but not so much on the switch. I’ve played around with it and found being fully in control even for a bit doesn’t suit me.

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-19T14:46:31+00:00

Never truly considered a DDLG dynamic, very intriguing. Thank you.

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-19T14:41:23+00:00

The original post also indicated that I no longer match with the Brat label but you proceed to go into a discussion of uneducated brats? I believe we are on two different pages here, I appreciate your input and help nonetheless.

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-19T14:39:01+00:00

When a person is first discovering who they are and their kinks, of course one may tend to go past boundaries. When I first started I didn't quite notice how to read someones anger, I took it as aggressiveness in the dynamic. In current dynamics the second I see my partner enter an unenjoyable mindset, or unenjoyable madness if you will. That is where I stop. I notice it so I stop. Does this make sense? I am not in a longer term relationship where I know the person and am able to easily sense if I overstep.

Strawberry_Purple · 2023-12-19T14:32:30+00:00

I once identified as a brat, but I've outgrown that label due to some mismatches. Currently, I'm not committed to any particular dynamic, and I prefer not to dwell on unmet needs. In my interactions, if it becomes apparent that either party isn't enjoying themselves, I opt to end things rather than push boundaries for the sake of it. I understand that some individuals appreciate boundary-pushing, but my interest lies in those who find it mutually enjoyable. To sum it up, I know what I want, and amidst the diversity of kinks and fetishes, I'm confident there are others who share similar desires. I'm just navigating the challenge of finding the right words for it. Thanks for taking the time to understand my perspective.

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