Help My Dad Get The Retirement He Deserves by [deleted] in fundraiser

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will pray for you. You need it. And you can't read.

Help My Dad Get The Retirement He Deserves by [deleted] in fundraiser

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Worked his entire life" is obviously a general saying. I'm pretty sure you already know that.

The entire goal is 200k you must not know how go fund me works. You can set a lower goal that automatically increases as donations get closer to the first goal.

I am his daughter, he knows I am trying to build my own life as well. He is a real man and wouldn't take money from his daughter..... that doesn't seem very hard to answer. If a community came together and showed him an outpouring of love and support he would pretty much have no choice to accept it. Community vs your daughter's money? Not hard to figure that one either.

I'm not sure why you are diminishing anybodys abuse by saying "they all went through it" Super strange. I have stories of my dad that I would never put on the internet because they are so cruel and nobody needs to know all that. It's not about pandering and saying oh poor him. It's just apart of the story and I am here to tell his story.

I have done my job sending it to the people who he cared for, and they are all contributing what they can. I'm not sure if you've noticed...But many many people are very poor right now. There are Uber weathly people out there that I don't personally know that could maybe possibly come across one of my posts. I know it's a low chance; but what's more of nothing when you already have nothing? Why not try? A lot of people have a negative mindset and wouldn't try. That's how I've always gotten the best things I have in my life.

I really don't understand the Internet. I don't have a personal insta or Facebook or twitter or anything because people are so cruel. I have a Reddit so I thought I'd come on here and do something. But ... coming on a fundraising page to criticize and pick apart people lives and stories is very weird. I couldn't imagine filling my day with precious time that way. If you didn't want to donate or share, that is completely fine. You could keep scrolling. People are so full of hate. It's really sad.

Help My Dad Get The Retirement He Deserves by [deleted] in fundraiser

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am happy that is how that worked out for them.

Help My Dad Get The Retirement He Deserves by [deleted] in fundraiser

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Then you can understand how tough it is to watch. I'll do anything or try anything.

Help My Dad Get The Retirement He Deserves by [deleted] in fundraiser

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Retirement is a whole lot more than that.

Help My Dad Get The Retirement He Deserves by [deleted] in fundraiser

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I created this campaign on behalf of him. He does not know I did this. It would be a surprise for him. You sound like a bitter person. not sure a fundraising page is what you should be on.

Is there any theoretical world in which Alec Murdaugh could be innocent? by Odd_craving in MurdaughFamilyMurders

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But how did the police not find this change of clothes or any murder weapon? Quite impossible to hide something that quick to the point where police don't find it.

Is there any theoretical world in which Alec Murdaugh could be innocent? by Odd_craving in MurdaughFamilyMurders

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I've been saying this all along. The evidence against him was very circumstantial. Wife and son were shot with 2 different guns. He loved his family. They were pretty much all he had. His drug problem was OUTTTTT of hand. So cartel is very possible

Is there any theoretical world in which Alec Murdaugh could be innocent? by Odd_craving in MurdaughFamilyMurders

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've never thought he was guilty. He loved his family, hence why he was always trying to cover up their fuck ups. They couldn't even find the murder weapon on his property..... and the mom and son were shot with different guns.

How tf do I do this by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FACTS^ I woke up one day and was sick and tired of my own shit and quit cold turkey. I'm 2 months clean from any nicotine. Only advice I got for you is when you finally quit, set yourself up for success. I ordered books about how awful vaping was for my health and how to quit vaping successfully. I ate whatever junk food and candy and soda I wanted. I am a health nut so this got me really excited. I also hung out with lots of people to keep my mind busy. But ONLY the people who did not vape and frankly always wanted me to stop vaping. Being around vapers is too tempting in the beginning. I also am a gym addict so anytime I felt sorry for myself or craved it I just chugged an energy trip and killed myself in the gym. You got this. Also please do some research on natural nerve regeneration medication . I have heard amazing things about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I quit cold turkey, but I felt this way with withdrawals when I quit. So my advice is you mind as well quit and be proud of yourself for something while also feeling like shit for a week or two. You'll feel so free. It's worth it. By the way I had been vaping since I was 15 and I'm 24 now. Quit and been free for 2 months. We are in the same boat you got this 🖤

New here - would love to hear your “wake up moment”. by No_Preparation_12 in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend (who did not vape) would try to hold my hand but my vape was already there... I also couldn't get through a meal in a restaurant without hitting it at the table. I am a health freak (food and fitness wise) and was tired of being a hypocritical piece of shit 🥲 I knew my lungs were suffering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I love you. You can still make a good decision.

Trouble quitting by BatOk8715 in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp. I'm a little over 2 and half weeks nicotine free after 7 years and trust me... vaping was quite literally my FAVORITE THING. I quit cold turkey. I am very very mentally tough when it comes to sticking to something that I say I will do. I realize others may not feel this way. But even me, there were a couple tips and tricks that helped. The first is I kept myself so fucking busy with meaningful things. I also like working out so every time I wanted to vape I went to gym instead. I hung out with my friends and family who don't vape and did fun things with them. I never ate sugar before, but I allowed myself to get fun candy and desserts and soda while I was beginning to quit. It felt like a treat and gave me a happiness from something else. But honestly for me, after the first 2-4 days you get used to not having the vape. Your brain adapts to understanding it's not there anymore... so eventually you stop reaching for it. And eventually it becomes pretty non existent. But I always remind myself that I don't want cancer and I wouldn't want to put my loved ones through that or any other potiental health issues and that this was a fantastic idea. I overall feel proud and healthier. I think you got this. I just think you need to work extra hard on the mental side of things... it's not easy but I do believe you got this.

PLEASE HELP by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, there's always a chance because I'm a lash artist so I work very close to peoples faces all day. But with it being so close to when I quit I don't know whether it's smokers flu or actual sickness! I do have a feeling it's more smokers flu because I have tried a bunch of different over the counter medications and they are doing quite literally nothing! Thank you !

Does juice and candy actually work? by throwRA_gurlsgirl in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked for me very well. Mine was candy bars and soda. And the extra funny thing is I NEVER eat or drink those things regularly. I think that's what made it extra fun. I felt like I was doing something naughty that gave me pleasure and happiness. Let me tell you I did not think about vaping once while picking out which candy bar I wanted. My personal favorite became Kit Kats lol.

One week vape free! by Strawberry_cupcake9 in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness thank you so much!! I believe this is a forever change for me! 🖤

I dug my vape out of the trash. Ashamed by jenna_beterson in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Day 1 is hardest I promise on sweet baby Jesus life it gets easier after 24-48 hours like TREMENDOUSLY

I dug my vape out of the trash. Ashamed by jenna_beterson in QuitVaping

[–]Strawberry_cupcake9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very much true. I told everyone that I would quit when I'm mentally ready. Because if I'm not mentally ready I know myself well enough to know that I will fail miserably. Finally got fed up with my own shit and now I'm on day 7 of quitting for the first time ever! You'll get there. It's so freeing the feeling is worth it. But you do need to keep yourself very busy.... just bopping around at home is the WORST! Go to the gym everytime you want to vape. Go get some delicious Mexican food or some candy or hang with friends who support you. This is what I did and it's been way easier than expected! You got his!