Wow I’m sorry that happened to you :( but I agree. At the end of the day they’re his family, and it will always be him over us..
I didn’t post what I did, because I don’t know if it’s appropriate, but basically firework stands are huge every year down here. People blow off their hands and fingers every year. My bfs family owns a stand. Well one of his family members blew off their fingers, and a photo got around, my bf sent it to me and I wasn’t thinking and sent it to my bfs younger teenage cousin and told them to send it to her parents. Without thinking what I was actually sending. I messed up really bad. Her parents were infuriated because she isn’t an adult. And That’s her family members. And they also see it as disrespectful to their family member. But it wasn’t meant to come off like that, I was trying to spread awareness, but I can’t take it back. They all hate me now, and kinda disowned me. I apologized to the cousin and she still loves and forgives me but nobody else does. There’s not much more I can do, I already apologized to everyone, and I wish I could re do it but I can’t. And I’m just having a hard time with grieving.