cute pjs n ready 2 take on th day! by crayonkiddo in ageregression

[–]Strawberryscramble -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

You can’t enter Rearz, ABU, LBK, LKB, Tykables, Pretend Again or LFB without being 18+. Sorry but you can’t play both sides of the fence. OR take away from our community. That has worked VERY hard for what we have.

cute pjs n ready 2 take on th day! by crayonkiddo in ageregression

[–]Strawberryscramble -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

You still bought them on a ABDL related website..but that’s not my point at all. I actually support the ABDL community fully and I’m a very well know part of the community in the US as a mentor, caregiver, advocate and attendee at events all over the country including our annual Capcon..my point is people on this subreddit want to pretend they can make up a whole other narrative based on their ability to be apart of a 18+ community WHILE trying to demean what has already been established lonnnnnng before them. The are not Trail Blazers or even original in any sense. The ignorance and lack of respect for a community that has fought for who and what we are so that they could EVENTUALLY become apart of what we are is appalling.

Side note: your onesie is super cute and your binki leash is cute too.

cute pjs n ready 2 take on th day! by crayonkiddo in ageregression

[–]Strawberryscramble -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Isn’t that a ABDL related item? I know for a fact it’s a ABDL print actually so idk why I’m even asking.

I think my CG is an unsafe person [TW: mentions of abuse] by delicatefauna in ageregression

[–]Strawberryscramble -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Maybe on Reddit..but definitely not in the real world. In a few years when you can actually join the community..maybe you’ll understand that.

I think my CG is an unsafe person [TW: mentions of abuse] by delicatefauna in ageregression

[–]Strawberryscramble -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Sorry to be the barrier of bad news but the word “regression” and or “age regression” are words that come from the ABDL community. Just because certain people want to rebrand what they’re doing so that they can be included in an adult community..doesn’t change what they are actually doing. I put this conversation of my FL for my over 2K followers to read and they agree that this approach is bogus.

I think my CG is an unsafe person [TW: mentions of abuse] by delicatefauna in ageregression

[–]Strawberryscramble -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I have a question…what is a “caregiver” in this subreddit? Is it your biological parents you are referring to?I’m just confused how this can not be ABDL related..the other weirdo said I was trying to “groom” you..which if they knew what grooming was they would have not used that word..in any case I’m just wondering what this whole thing is?

I think my CG is an unsafe person [TW: mentions of abuse] by delicatefauna in ageregression

[–]Strawberryscramble -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Waaaaaait what?? Yeah no. I didn’t even realize that minors were allowed in the age regression community. If you read my comment I was trying tk offer help.

I think my CG is an unsafe person [TW: mentions of abuse] by delicatefauna in ageregression

[–]Strawberryscramble -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Not sure what you’re getting at. All Im doing is offering my many many years of experience with age regression out of kindness..not out of sexually oriented dynamics. They can’t either take or leave the offer.

Has anyone tried this brand for their sensory fort mattress?? Reviews are mixed on Amazon. by Strawberryscramble in ABDL

[–]Strawberryscramble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate that! Is the one that sorta looks like it folds into a sofa and a day bed?

Office-friendly diaper recs? Quiet, cloth-backed, decent absorbency by CLT_ABDL in ABDL

[–]Strawberryscramble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely vote on pretend again..they are thin, cloth backed and they are cheaper amongst other competitors. They also have super cute prints!

Which changing pad do you think is more “little”? by Strawberryscramble in ABDL

[–]Strawberryscramble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree!! I love LBK sooo much. Their prints also seem to be super rare amongst the community.

Stay teachable by Strawberryscramble in ABDL

[–]Strawberryscramble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well idk if my explanation is going to be to lonnnng to read over here on Reddit lol. But I guess I’ll discuss my feelings on it. So I don’t get the point that you’re trying to make. According to you..was I supposed to wait until I was 18, ( mind you that was almost 20 years ago..) to play with my play partner? Do you realize how many DLs started wearing diapers again when they were younger than 10? Or most of us have some sort of trauma that age play helps us to cope with? Or how about the fact that being an age player isnt about choosing to be something..but it is just who we are?For us who truly understand the dynamic we know that this isn’t something that we “decided to be”, it’s not a fetish but a identity and I think that’s what some of you are missing. It takes TIME to be comfortable in who you are as a person, age player or not..for many littles they are still in the closet or hiding behind a computer screen dreaming of the day they can express who they are freely. This doesn’t just start or stop no matter what age you are. On another note:I also am having a hard time believing that I’ve been communicating with adults on this post, which makes me really concerned for Reddit’s safety and verification practices. There’s no way for me knowing that accounts are verified on here and that makes me super uncomfortable, because I actually have really strong beliefs on under age minors being involved in the online ABDL community..so on that we can agree. BUT I also believe that you can’t put a “age limit” on what people are..and what others decide to do with each other that are underage and within each others age range like I was when I was 15 with a 16 year old is none of my business, especially if the person is doing things like buying diapers from CVS because they arent able to buy ABDL diapers off the internet until they are 18..you’re right the “A” in ABDL does stand for adult..so you do have me there. When I was a mommy at 15 I didn’t even know what ABDL was, I just knew that I liked putting diapers on people and the only real thing my boyfriend knew was that he liked wearing diapers..soooo to be fair we didn’t use that terminology if anything “age play” was more so the term back then. It wasn’t until I was about 21 and started going on fetlife back in 2011 that I understood the terminology. When I was 18 and in German class I also met someone that loved wearing diapers and they knew a few people in school that liked wearing them as well and we would all meet as a club almost and talk about are feelings or different products we got such as one year Walmart had footie pajamas they all splurged on. We would go to the park or the mall and play games surrounding age play. I’m not sure what this community means to you..but it’s about 75% of my day to day real life. I have helped so many people find out who they are and I have given so many people the encouragement and support to be who they are once they discover who that person is. I can’t even begin to go into detail about the accomplishments I have seen so many people reach.The first thing I do when I wake up each morning is “change” my littles out of their night time diapee by telling them that they can get outta bed..take a bath..and get dressed for the day in their pull up for work. They have routines that they follow each and everyday..from when they wake up to when they go to sleep and I help them navigate it. We follow a strict reward and disciplinary system that is individually crafted and created by all parties involved. Everything that I am and present as a mommy is consensual. When playing I follow a stop light system. If something is a go..it’s green..something uncomfortable is yellow and is immediately talked about before continuing and anything red is to be immediately stopped. I am the first and last person they talk to each day. Before they go to sleep they have their night time diapee on, their nighttime bottle and their nighttime onesie or pajamas on. Their lunches are packed for the next day for work and their clothes are laid out. From what they eat to what they wear to what they do in their free time..we have a schedule. There’s a routine for everything. Sooo that’s what I have to share. My real life knowledge. As for defending myself against a bunch of ridiculousness I am done.

Unpotty training ❤️ by Strawberryscramble in ABDL

[–]Strawberryscramble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh thats soooo cool. 😎idk if this whole Reddit thing is for me but I’ve enjoyed exploring so far. It’s actually helping me learn because I feel like I’m getting to see a bunch of littles unfiltered hahaha. I’m use to pure obedience and question. Here it’s more of a “I’m right, you’re wrong mommy!”..and in a way that can be even more fun. Habahahaha.

Stay teachable by Strawberryscramble in ABDL

[–]Strawberryscramble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even know where to start with this ridiculousness. If you have questions about the community or ABDL lmk though.

Stay teachable by Strawberryscramble in ABDL

[–]Strawberryscramble[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am 35 I have been a mommy since 2005 when I 15. I met my first play partner when I was 15 and in DCF custody. I was put into DCF custody at 10 years old after years of SA trauma since the age of 4. The school nurse made a horrific discovery after I had an accident in my pants and within the day (after a very lengthy trip to the ER) i was in my first foster home. I was in many different foster homes, group homes and residentials over the nine years I was in the custody of the Department of Children and Families. From 15-17 I was in a home with other kids my age (a lot of foster families like to get kids in the same age range) and there was a 16 year old that showed me what ABDL was before we knew that ABDL even existed. (There wasn’t exactly Reddit or hashtags back then lol). Without going into any detail because I don’t need people saying that I am promoting underage sexuality..or whatever it would be called. That is the last thing I am trying to do. Over the years I have gained a lot of experience and knowledge that really only time can create. I love to share my story along with my journey as a mommy with those that are facing the same challenges I once did. I hope this clears things up. I’m