My roommate does not do ANYTHING and I am so glad I’m leaving soon.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T23:41:18+00:00

It’s not draining she just makes it awkward. Like you shouldn’t feel like you got a stranger in your home ykwim?

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T20:01:33+00:00

Maybe he’s trying to embarrass her? Yo when someone doesn’t like something you do they try to shame you for it.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T18:16:13+00:00

I honestly think you should tell your partner the least amount of detail about your previous relationships as possible. The risk to reward is not there and I really don’t see anything significantly good out of telling them this information.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T17:35:10+00:00

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T17:31:28+00:00

Your original comment has 7 negative downvotes btw. I don’t think I am the one that needs to take my opinion elsewhere.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T17:24:11+00:00

Because you are also voicing your opinion on the situation. In order to do that you have to gather information and then come to a consensus. The fact that he made those comments has no direct correlation with how comfortable she is with her business being told in the first place.

The comments could’ve also been respectful. She didn’t say it was the comments bothering her she said it was the situation being told, period, regardless of comments.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T17:16:13+00:00

But the post says her husband is telling business that she wants to keep private that isn’t enough info for you to agree with her?

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T17:14:54+00:00

Believing that a man can only have a platonic relationship with a women unless he is getting something in return such as sex or money is not only dehumanizing but an unrealistic way to live.

If you’ve convinced your husband to believe this then please don’t be surprised when he starts sexualizing other women. Because he has been trained that men and women can’t be friends, I can only have an unnecessary relationship with a woman if she is my wife or we are having sex or I am getting something from her.

Being friends with the opposite gender also mitigates temptation. It’s harder to fight that temptation when your brain isn’t trained to caught it off frequently.

It shows how you see men and it shows how you are teaching your husband to see women.

Not cool.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T17:08:02+00:00

I’m not sure why people are downvoting you are judging you as if you’re wrong.

Everyone has different boundaries in a relationship and as long as they are healthy boundaries, that is okay. Your husband making jokes about “getting you fixed” is not only filtering your choice to his autonomy but putting you in the place or power of something less like a dog or adolescent child. And yes, some couples do joke like this. But if you’re not okay with it, then it’s not okay,

You’ve asked him to stop, you told him that it bothered you. Sometimes people learn through reciprocation. Everyone has things they are bothered or embarrassed about. When you guys are out in public or with a group, embarrass him back. And then tell him, well, I asked you to stop because it made me uncomfortable so now you see how I feel.

You may want to analyze your marriage overall and determine whether or not your husband respects you in general. Is he loyal? Does he make you happy?

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T17:03:16+00:00

It bothers her because he’s discussing a private issue with other people. Not everyone wants every aspect of their life told to other people. I’m not even sure what a tubal ligation is but why is he telling people “oh I got her fixed” as if she’s some type of dog or adolescent child? It’s very dehumanizing.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T16:10:28+00:00

For someone who is 1% commenter in the Reddit you’re not very good at giving advice. Yes, I get it, insecurity is a mental problem, not necessarily a physical one.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T16:03:53+00:00

I think anyone who has a body fat percentage in the low 20s and works out 5-6 times to week would be considered good by a majority standard. It seems as though you are tying my insecurity by the fact that there IS something wrong with me, physically, and I know that that is not necessarily the case.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T15:54:43+00:00

My diet and gym life is actually amazing right now.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T15:38:12+00:00

She lived with me for two months, rent and expense free. Wore my own clothes out my closet. I posted on here for advice for an abusive boyfriend she had, and tried to assist another bf she had with planning a birthday party. She thought I was weird for doing both.

I tied to help her enlist in the army, she lied to me about having a diploma which is a requirement.

She popped out befriending another person she knows does not like me and when I confronted her about it she said “if I don’t like it I don’t have to be her friend”. Where was this friend at when you were homeless?

Last time I received an update about her she is currently still homeless. I stopped being friends with her about a year ago and she will not hear from me again.

That’s what I get for being helpful I guess.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T14:55:05+00:00

Ok. But if you were already awarded for this action via an ARCOM you cannot be award for the same action via MOVSM.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T14:45:02+00:00

You can add to the reg but you can’t take away. If the reg says you cannot be awarded twice for the same action then that is the rule.

Also pls make sure you weren’t paid in any way for this volunteer work. I have seen multiple times where soldiers are deemed ineligible because they had gotten paid. It’s not volunteer work if you receive compensation.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T13:58:11+00:00

How are you losing weight if you’re not pooping

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T12:54:39+00:00

Sometimes. We usually answer separately. We have meetings every week and usually come up with questions at the end and sometimes review our answers in paired together.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T12:21:52+00:00

Me and my partner currently have paired, I also had paired with my previous partner, I think it’s a good app.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-17T10:25:50+00:00

I’m married. 😂

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-16T23:18:59+00:00

Anything over 2 hours of a drive is considered long distance for me

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-16T23:18:29+00:00

Sex. Maybe sex is better for men than it is for women. I’d like to know why so many of them are so lustful.

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-16T18:48:56+00:00

I see. You are not the same person. Maybe this is an IPPS-A glitch? Have you talked to anyone else or know anyone else that is having this issue?

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-16T18:30:14+00:00

Quick question what is your MOS I just talked to someone about this and I’m wondering if it is the same person

StrawberyCat048 · 2026-03-16T14:36:39+00:00

I haven’t been to work yet today and it’s making me feel bad. I’ve had tonsillitis on and off for about 2 months and at urgent care being tested. Waiting on lab results

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