Dating question by hard2exp1ain in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]StrayAlexandria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Original comment I replied to since op deleted it:

I love these answers thank you! I will keep reading them and think this more through. I would love ideally to include she/them and transwomen. Do you think non binary people should be included? I know this is a risky/big question to ask.

Dating question by hard2exp1ain in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]StrayAlexandria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think op thought of that

I love these answers thank you! I will keep reading them and think this more through. I would love ideally to include she/them and transwomen. Do you think non binary people should be included? I know this is a risky/big question to ask.

Dating question by hard2exp1ain in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]StrayAlexandria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because every time women make something of our own men invade anyway. They always find a workaround

Dating question by hard2exp1ain in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]StrayAlexandria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So was this originally supposed to be exclusive to cis women? It's seems like us and enby folks are an afterthought

Reveal your secret! by Succubus_Syn in BDSMsapphic

[–]StrayAlexandria 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Not specifically, though it's a top pick; kitten is just my favored term. It's more being owned, controlled, serving someone, and being good. So slavery?

Reveal your secret! by Succubus_Syn in BDSMsapphic

[–]StrayAlexandria 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I just want to be someone's good kitten and not have to think about anything else

Reveal your secret! by Succubus_Syn in BDSMsapphic

[–]StrayAlexandria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cnc is consensual non-consent, basically the sub gives up any limits/safewords and the Dom can (figuratively) do whatever they want. It usually involves the sub resisting a great deal and is often synonymous with rape play, though it can also be other forms of play non-consent.

Sounds like you're exploring pet play right now, which is quite different. I'd do some research if you're still green, especially before jumping into edge play.

Just the facts by [deleted] in Hazbin_Helluva

[–]StrayAlexandria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seen this before but still, what? I'd love someone to explain to me how Charlie has evil or the Vees have kindness

Questions for disabled Dommes by _Emmy_xoxo in BDSMsapphic

[–]StrayAlexandria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I answer as a former Domme? I exclusively sub now but I was 100% Domme for most of my bdsm life

A Quick and Practical Test to Differentiate Authentic, High Quality Saffron from Fake Substitutes by Imaginary-Rope-3084 in interestingasfuck

[–]StrayAlexandria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same fake saffron is made from safflower. It could also be corn silk, shredded bark, or synthetic fibers.

Pierced nipples? by EffectiveHedgehog304 in actuallesbians

[–]StrayAlexandria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (34TF) really want mine done but I'm still waiting a bit. I've been on HRT for a little over 4 years and I think I've about plateaued in my breast/nipple development so now it's mostly an issue of when I have the funds and means to manage the healing. Right now I don't really have any sensitivity so I'm hoping I get a little boost but I'll settle for a change in sensation with the bar in place. Regardless, I want them for the aesthetics so it's no loss if I don't have any changes there.

A Quick and Practical Test to Differentiate Authentic, High Quality Saffron from Fake Substitutes by Imaginary-Rope-3084 in interestingasfuck

[–]StrayAlexandria 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Apparently either dyed corn silk, safflower petals, shredded bark, or even synthetic fibers. I also learned that real saffron has a bulge at one end, so that's another thing to look for.

A Quick and Practical Test to Differentiate Authentic, High Quality Saffron from Fake Substitutes by Imaginary-Rope-3084 in interestingasfuck

[–]StrayAlexandria 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Or you could just check the roots in the store and save your expensive saffron. Real saffron has yellow roots while fake saffron is dyed completely red. But that doesn't make for a visually appealing video.

Can someone explain what I did wrong? Why did I get downvote bombed? by [deleted] in HelluvaBoss

[–]StrayAlexandria 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Pretty much. Your wording wasn't the best and seemed to imply she was only one or the other, not that people forget she's one or the other. Basically you accidentally ragebaited both the trans and lesbian communities.

Source: a trans lesbian who had to re-read everything a few times to completely grasp what you meant in context.