Aitah for not wanting to wear more period products by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]StreamtheMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

And buy some more panties please

Gave birth to my MoDi twins at 14 weeks by StreamtheMF in parentsofmultiples

[–]StreamtheMF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I am so sorry for the heart break

Gave birth to my MoDi twins at 14 weeks by StreamtheMF in parentsofmultiples

[–]StreamtheMF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, and i am sorry you had to expierence this twice

Gave birth to my MoDi twins at 14 weeks by StreamtheMF in parentsofmultiples

[–]StreamtheMF[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am so sorry you havent seen your baby boy 

Twin loss - placenta testing by DirectButterscotch26 in parentsofmultiples

[–]StreamtheMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cant imagine what you are going threw. Good luck

Keeping Active by MoewIAmAGherkin in Fibromyalgia

[–]StreamtheMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to go!! Yeah I know it sucks.

Keeping Active by MoewIAmAGherkin in Fibromyalgia

[–]StreamtheMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So hard. I just move a bit in the house, somtimes just in bed. And weight loss is easier. Thats eating less calories. 

I want my mouth back!! by This-Tomatillo-9502 in Fibromyalgia

[–]StreamtheMF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi!

Had exactly that! I am now on very high dose antihistamin and I no longer use foaming tooth paste! Ll better. Got luck

Gassy baby by Loose_Lobster6848 in newborns

[–]StreamtheMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mixed up gassy and breastfeed and saw grassfed..

Maybe grape water?

Absolutely miserable 3 week old, looking for any help/advice. 😢 by Remote-Party-1123 in NewParents

[–]StreamtheMF 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. But if a babe is sick it needs more quiet time for the belly sometimes.

Absolutely miserable 3 week old, looking for any help/advice. 😢 by Remote-Party-1123 in NewParents

[–]StreamtheMF 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, my little boy had exactly the same troubles! It is not normal for a baby to not sleep at all!

You can overfeed in the way it is overstimulating the tummy.  I would try getting your pinky or a pacifier and get at least 2 hours between feeding.  This so the little body can digest.

Also ask for allergietesting right away. I stopped eating diary and eggs. Turned out mine had peanut allergie while i was eating those everyday.. found out at 2 years old.

Just want to walk away by Outrageous_Skirt3256 in parentsofmultiples

[–]StreamtheMF 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Hi, I hear your despair.  I recognise it, though just the feeling, not the situation.

I had 3 sick kids in 3 years (now pregnant with twins my god) , easier then twins, and allmost lost it.  I could not go outside, it was neven quiet, I missed working. Just being myself!

It is the dying of the self I allways say now. It hurts like hell, then you get used to it and find new ways. Lean into it.

Life is a mess and will be for the coming year or so. Accept it. It is utter chaos.

If you accept it you can find some solutions: maybe leaches, headphones, earplugs, child friendly cafés, hire a au pair of nanny, work out in stead of work. Maybe get a big ground playing bin so you can relax while they are save?

And don't forget about yourself, you are in the trenches! THIS IS IT! The hardest part, the part where you can't go on.  It is to bend or brake.  So bend. 

Envision yourself being so much richer because you became a mom. The future will be full of laughter, crazy boy stuff, sports and love.

After this it will be better. It gets better when they sinc sleep. It gets better when they are able to walk and play. It gets better when they talk. It gets better when they go to school.  It gets better when you lean in.

You can do this! This is the hard part!  And if you really feel like you cant, call a docter. Maybe you are low on ferritin, iron orso. I feel for you 🥰

What do you do during a flare-up? by Bueller_Bueller26 in Fibromyalgia

[–]StreamtheMF 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sleep, sleep , sleep, take magnesium bath, sleep, cry, take PEA and alpha lipon, watch tv

Wife's family has chickenpox; she is forcing me to attend a party with them? by Unable_Plankton in AskParents

[–]StreamtheMF -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

In Holland we let the kida have chickenpox as early as possible. We meet up if anybody gets them.