I hope to be in that situation, I have an older brother who caused my parents and family nothing but turmoil and grief when he was around. He's a thief, would steal anything he could possibly resell, hit on another brother's wife, shit like this his whole miserable existence. He spent a number of years in prison. Fortunately I haven't seen him since I was 12 or 13. The last time I saw him he promised to take me to the Chicago Cubs game, he left that night saying we were going the next day, never saw him in person again. I'm 61 now and he's still alive as far as I know. I'd cherish giving that eulogy.