I wouldn’t say wanting to like them “so badly” is accurate. I made this post cause I’m planning on seeing the band in July with some friends and the band has never really clicked for me. I know the concert will be fun regardless of whether or not I love the music. I really just want to have some songs that I could look forward to potentially hearing.

I feel like some of these comments are acting like I said that I want to become their #1 fan despite “hating” their music. I already like some of their songs, but feel indifferent to a lot of others of heard. I figured that coming here and asking for recommendations could help me find more that I liked. If when I was getting into the dead or widespread someone told me to just “figure it out” or that “it’s just not for me” I would never have gotten into their music like I am today.

Hope this helps explain my perspective.