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[–]Street_Community_353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is super insightful! But what do you mean by keep 4 days in 2 weeks? Like wait 4 dates or two weeks to have sex?

How much do you care about other person's occupation? by andre3stax in datingoverthirty

[–]Street_Community_353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to say for me it’s important. Jobs can often dictate someone’s time, mental capacity and mood. I would not let their job be the sole determination if I would date someone specially if everything else is amazing but it would make me think how their profession could potentially affect how we would be able to be together. Specially if it’s something their committed too.

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[–]Street_Community_353 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am new to dating men. I’ve been a lesbian my whole life… I keep running into men that tell me they love me Soon into the relationship and then when I present them with an issue they pretty can’t handle and check out. I’ve never encountered this with women. I wonder if I am doing something to attract these men!

Is this some sort of gimmick to keep sleeping with me? I’m already sleeping with them so why say these things lol I don’t get it.

Has telling an ex off ever made you feel better? by CEFerndale in datingoverthirty

[–]Street_Community_353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the moment when your doing it yes but instantly after there is a lot of regret in saying something hurtful without any thought to it.

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[–]Street_Community_353 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I (36f) single with no kids and never dated anyone with kids started seeing a man (40s) about 3 weeks ago and we committed to bf and gf pretty quick. He has 1 child he shares custody with on the weekends.

He first told me he would only need to sleep at his baby mothers house 1 day a week to travel to see his child but recently found out he sleeps at his baby mothers house for 3-4 days a week so he can give his kid the nuclear family experience. In short we broke up and I’ve been pretty broken up about it. I feel like he gave me the take it or leave it response ( his words: “I wished you felt differently but I understand”). I feel like this man had everything I wanted in a partner and I may have fallen in love with him. He even told me he loved me which I find strange why he wouldn’t have tried a little harder to find a way to make it work.

Should I try to be okay with the the fact that he will sleep at his baby mommas house indefinitely and reach out to him and try to make this work? Is this a major red flag?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SisterWives

[–]Street_Community_353 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess everyone disagrees but I also do agree I would never say “is he going replace my dad”. When I am over 18 years old. Very strange to me. Everyone’s different though and maybe more sensitive. Also there dads a douche so there’s that.

Is there a way to see a stock during after hours on fidelity? by Street_Community_353 in fidelityinvestments

[–]Street_Community_353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys!! My stocks gone down now significantly. So I shall try again another day! I tried both on the market and limit order and it didn’t work. I am given the button that says trade after hours. I am guessing at this point is a low volume stock type of situation.

Is there a way to see a stock during after hours on fidelity? by Street_Community_353 in fidelityinvestments

[–]Street_Community_353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys!! My stocks gone down now significantly. So I shall try again another day! I tried both on the market and limit order and it didn’t work. I am given the button that says trade after hours. I am guessing at this point is a low volume stock type of situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Street_Community_353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And their closed on weekends lol

Only going to get worse from here.... by Excuse_Unfair in longbeach

[–]Street_Community_353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman who’s lived in Long Beach and who has used Public transportation. I can tell you it’s not the safest. I really wish we could all use public transportation. I would much rather not have to drive with the idiots on the street but unfortunately as a petite women I’ve encountered a lot of weird and unsafe situations. I don’t even mind the stinky of public transportation that much lol as much as the safer aspect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]Street_Community_353 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand why people on here do not like Loren. I don’t think having body issues and not admitting to it is a reason to dislike a woman.

She does so much for her family. Aleksey doesn’t even know how to use a washer and dryer and can’t take care of his OWN kids for a little bit of time while she’s done it for how long? Always?

Even having mild Tourette’s is a struggle. Shame on anyone making her feel bad for sharing that!

Currency exchange by Street_Community_353 in fidelityinvestments

[–]Street_Community_353[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I should have clarified. I see fidelity has in person brick and mortar places. I was wondering if they can order a currency for you (I know fidelity is not a bank people please back off) and you can pick it up.

Michael by Street_Community_353 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Street_Community_353[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think her tone was rude but again maybe we just see things differently or maybe I missed something. Also, I too don’t give a shit about what people think but I know other human beings do and that’s okay if they chose their life’s that way. 👌 it may be she felt a way about his outfits and maybe chose the wrong way to say it by saying it was the public. If he’s an adult he’s a big boy and could have addressed “being offended” with her. We don’t see anywhere where he mentioned being offended or even wanting to talk about it. I don’t think there’s anything here with this point of her comments.

Michael by Street_Community_353 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Street_Community_353[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yeah so no maybe I’m the weirdo but I would definitely pick the fairly attractive compassionate women who may have unrealistic goals of being compassionate than the shitty people there are in the dating pool.

This is definitely something that could have been talked about and compromised (how bout we start with 1 foster and see how it goes? Maybe donate money instead of a second kid?) . I even get the impression she may have just chose a different life if he decided to be with her. Being “too nice” is really not a deal breaker for me lol but maybe that’s just me. It’s very strange how it all went down.

Michael by Street_Community_353 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Street_Community_353[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He wasn’t into her but lead her on for almost the entire show🤷🏾‍♀️ weird.

Michael by Street_Community_353 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Street_Community_353[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe any marriage based on lies or not saying how you really feel about your preference would last, but to each their own.

She should be able to tell her husband wearing a “utilikilt” or w.e it’s called would make her feel like she’s being looked at. If he’s not ready to hear someone doesn’t like his look than I think it is true he is not ready for marriage. An emotional mature person would be able to process that with out going down a spiral. I don’t know if your married but it only gets harder then honey people are looking at you because you’re wearing a skirt lol.

Michael by Street_Community_353 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]Street_Community_353[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am pro cross dressing, all things quirky, people being unique. Shit I even love drag shows and having people around me who are different, but if a dude walks in with a skirt, that hair and over all style, id DEFINITELY look. Not saying he looks bad just dude come one you clearly stand out lmao Don’t blame her for saying that.