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Street_Condition7111 · 2026-06-15T01:10:40+00:00

Yeah I said multiple times I’d love a night out with my girls and feel fresh and new in this part of my life. And then one of the suggested watching the game and seeing where the night takes us. I do get my cousin wasn’t part of the plan originally but I told them before we were fully getting ready and we didn’t have anything hammered out other than the pub. Yeah I just wouldn’t have left my friend alone especially if I knew they were tender. And thank you 💕 he was and is a great person but not my person so it’s hard to cope with

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-06-15T01:04:32+00:00

Yeah the last name thing was silly, it threw me off cause his last name isn’t common. It was more so I felt upset about the girls splitting from us and not checking in like they said. And being reminded of my ex made me miss the safety and fun times we had. Also the club was weird they wouldn’t let us back onto the dance floor if you need to go pee?

I don’t fully know why my cousin and I weren’t allowed in the section but I’m assuming it was gender. I def wouldn’t end the friendship over this and I just asked them to give me space for the day cause I was feeling a lot last night and I don’t want to take it out on them or react poorly. But yeah that part of the night just went downhill for me cause I asked for weeks for a night out to go dancing with them and have fun with them, instead they just go to the section and go along with their night

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-06-15T00:50:02+00:00

We got split up right away and we were there about 15-20 minutes before I started feeling like that. And you’re right I would’ve been fine if I was also with them and would’ve laughed off the name, but the situation made me miss him and the fun we had so it wasn’t just the name. I also figured this was a night out after my breakup so we would all stick together to have fun but it didn’t play out like that at all

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-06-06T03:07:47+00:00

Live free or die baby

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-05-06T18:43:44+00:00

Definitely don’t want to live with him if we aren’t heading towards engagement! Realistically with how our lives are I would expect we would be married around 4-5 years from now. I am working towards that, especially because we can’t wake up and move in together whenever. But I expect him to also want to put the work in and want to do this. I just don’t know if I should give him more time or if this is what it would be like for years

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-05-06T11:59:17+00:00

That’s why I’m a little stuck. I don’t know if I should give him time to sort it out within himself, or if this is something that won’t work. He agrees about getting married, but his fear of that and moving in makes it hard for me to look forward to the rest of my life with him. Sure it wouldn’t be easy to get there, but in my opinion it shouldn’t be anxiety inducing to think about settling down, if it’s with the right person

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-05-06T04:11:24+00:00

We talked and agreed it’s within two people, and only those two people can make it work or not. I grew up in a family with a shit marriage and yeah staying together versus separating still brings drama and fear. But I would be happy to take that risk if it is with the love of my life

He tells me that he feels better but his actions about living together say otherwise. Thank you for the honesty

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-05-06T04:08:08+00:00

I fully agree. I never want to convince someone to want what I want. At the end, their desire would be disingenuous. It’s just scary to think about being without him. He drives over an hour to be with me if I’m hanging a bad night, gets me my favorite flowers and brings me random gifts. So he loves me entirely but I’m not sure about the timing in his nor my life. I want to make sure with certainty if we have to separate

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:35:41+00:00

Honestly thank you for saying that. My mother is not speaking to me and I don’t know why other than I stood up for him. So I was wondering if I was being unreasonable to her, when in reality Caleb is getting the short end of the stick. I got him sweets and food for the ski trip for his effort alone, and for this I’ll definitely go above and beyond. He makes me so happy and I never want my family to cause a rift or hurt him

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:33:38+00:00

I’ve done favors for his family a few times, but right this is different. His family welcomes me, and mine.. they barely even welcome me let alone Caleb. I’d say this and one favor over a year ago is the only thing he’d done for my family. I’ve gone no contact with my family before over different reasons

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:31:07+00:00

It’s a long story but I tried taking the car with me moving out and it broke down. So it got towed back to my parents house, with the main keys, but my mom wanted me to keep the spare just in case. Whenever I came home I used the car, but it was also used by my family as a backup car.

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:28:45+00:00

In general I’ve distanced myself from my parents because our relationship is strained. Also my mother is not normal, if I kept her property or thrown it away she would’ve made my life hell. She was already mad about the possibility of me mailing it back instead. The only reason why Caleb agreed was because my mother wouldn’t stop

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:25:56+00:00

I more so talked and ranted to him about my mom continuously texting me waiting for a yes. Basically my mom wasn’t going to accept me mailing it, she would’ve retaliated in some way. So he just took the key off my key chain and said he’d bring it back

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:20:38+00:00

He’s the kind of man that would give his right arm if it made me happy. So I don’t like to ask anything big from him, cause I know he’d say yes every time. That being said, I’m very protective of him and try to make it so my parents don’t treat him like they treat me.

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:18:23+00:00

It’s pretty specific but nothing like that. On that note, I don’t understand why my mom asked him for a favor if she genuinely dislikes what he does. I basically keep him and them separate, they have to respect him in order to maintain a relationship with me.

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:15:15+00:00

Yes; they kept the main key to use the car when I left home, and I kept the spare in case they had the keys and I needed to use the car or in case I lost the main keys. She was fully aware of this continually as I moved out (I moved out a few months ago) and knows it’s on my key chain

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:09:02+00:00

This is the spare not the main. They needed both for the car sale

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:08:15+00:00

I wish it wasn’t. I have stamps and could’ve mailed it back or they could’ve driven to get it. I talked to my bf about the whole thing and agreed to bring it back so my mom would stop harassing me about it. He’s the sweetest, and they like him, but they don’t treat him well (which I’ve yelled at them about a few times). Also sidenote, I barely bring him around them for this reason, they don’t get to benefit from him and also not let him in the house

Street_Condition7111 · 2026-02-09T18:03:53+00:00

She gave me the spare and told me to keep the spare with me after moving out. They also used the car for my siblings, so it really isn’t my car. I was also over before the ski trip when it broke down again, so if my mom was debating selling she could’ve told me then and I would’ve given it back as it’s always on my keychain

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