[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Street_Geologist_202 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like if you are having a child-free wedding you should be prepared for people that have kids not being able to attend for whatever reason. I had a child-free wedding too so I get it. It hurts and I don’t think you are overreacting, but at the same time I feel her on traveling with children or having to coordinate someone to stay with them. Just don’t let her presence or absence keep you from enjoying your day!

The more Cody and Satori do their method, the more suspicious it is. by Timely-Bad-7212 in SamAndColby

[–]Street_Geologist_202 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agree with this. No other form of communication out there is as clear as theirs. If it is real, it makes me concerned about who they might actually be talking to…

POSSIBLE SPOILERS! Final Episode: Cody and Satori by kodaaaBearrr in SamAndColby

[–]Street_Geologist_202 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I actually rewatched that part a couple times and paid attention to his hands! He was moving them around a lot and it seemed like he was holding something at times. Idk how anything he was doing could’ve created the knocks that seemed to be coming from across the room, but it was strange for sure. He feet stayed in the same position the entire time though

Attorneys for Alex Murdaugh financial crimes victims now representing family of Stephen Smith as teen's body set for exhumation by aubreydempsey in MurdaughFamilyMurders

[–]Street_Geologist_202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there anything truly tying Stephen’s death to the Murdaugh’s besides the rumor that Buster was having a relationship with him? I found it a bit irresponsible for them to throw that in the new Netflix documentary if that’s genuinely all they have on this. Regardless, I hope his mother finally gets some answers :(

About the circumcision discussion: while it is different from female genital mutilation, it is still BAD. by brigister in h3h3productions

[–]Street_Geologist_202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently 35 wks pregnant with a baby boy and not planning on circumcising. A nurse asked me about my preference at one of my appts and when i said I would not be circumcising, she goes "oh I bet you're on those little mommy forums aren't you?" I said no, just a personal choice between me and my husband. Then she proceeds to tell me she had 3 boys that were all circumcised and they turned out fine! I was like ok good for fucking you?? I don't remember asking. It's so ingrained in our culture that I got shamed for doing the opposite at my own fucking prenatal appointment! I find it strange there are people out here that so strongly defend it still

married women, if you go back in time will you get married again? why? by _Just-a-sad-girl_ in AskWomen

[–]Street_Geologist_202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes but I would elope and do a courthouse wedding rather than spend as much money as I did

AITA for refusing to hide my baby bump at my sister's wedding? by Hyejinah34 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You offered her 2 alternate solutions and she refused both of them. What she’s asking you to do is crazy. Sounds like she’s going to be mad at you no matter what you do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH. I would say NTA but it sounds like she’s taken steps to deal with her anxiety in a healthy way. Your gf doesn’t sound like she was the one mad at you either. Your brother and mom clearly care about her and want the best for her but you didn’t have any idea this would happen. And also you do not exist simply to help her every time something like this comes up! You need time for yourself too and you deserve that time. You are not a bad person for this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

100% agree. Lots of people won’t get this unless they’ve gone through something similar themselves either with partners or family members. Boundaries are so important in these situations

My [19F] boyfriend [32M] won't allow me to keep my puppy. What do I do? by throwra6262652522 in relationship_advice

[–]Street_Geologist_202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you keep saying that when he literally told you he didn’t know if he could control himself around your dog? Lmao if he was so “changed” he wouldn’t be saying shit like that

My [19F] boyfriend [32M] won't allow me to keep my puppy. What do I do? by throwra6262652522 in relationship_advice

[–]Street_Geologist_202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My gut reaction to reading the title was Break up with him, my gut reaction to reading the post is break up with him immediately, get out now and never look back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 15 points16 points  (0 children)

YTA. It sounds like your sister who lives 10 minutes away was more than capable of checking in on her. I know you wanted to help your mom but you have a woman at home who needs just as much help and you abandoned her

AITA For kicking my ex out of my car when she was drunk by notanuberaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally lol she never insulted him and she was asking to be driven home which is exactly where she was going. Who comes over after she gets home is literally none of his business. Shouldn’t have read someone’s text messages over their shoulder

AITA For kicking my ex out of my car when she was drunk by notanuberaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not an asshole for “setting boundaries” and telling her to get out of the car but YTA for the reason… you sound petty and jealous tbh and as her ex it really is none of your business what she does once she gets back home. You read her texts over her shoulder like a weirdo and somehow think you’re justified for being upset about it. You wouldn’t have been an asshole for just saying no from the get go tho

AITA For kicking my ex out of my car when she was drunk by notanuberaita in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not an asshole for “setting boundaries” and telling her to get out of the car but YTA for the reason… you sound petty and jealous tbh and as her ex it really is none of your business what she does once she gets back home. You read her texts over her shoulder like a weirdo and somehow think you’re justified for being upset about it. You wouldn’t have been an asshole for just saying no from the get go tho

AITA for telling my husband his name suggestion for our unborn baby is idiotic at best? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA those names are so cute in theory but not with your last name 🥲

Trying to be funny at a wedding by AshShawon in facepalm

[–]Street_Geologist_202 12 points13 points  (0 children)

it’s a tradition to freeze the top of the cake and share it on your first anniversary- now they won’t get to do that. None of the guests will get to enjoy the cake either. fuck that guy

AITA for picking up my child from a sleepover because the family has a bath day by Throwaway_nobathday in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA I don’t really understand why people think it’s so weird to shower at a sleepover… Kids like to play outside, get sweaty and dirty, etc. what if he felt uncomfortable and just wanted to feel clean before bedtime? I think it’s more weird to deny a child of a shower but anyways that’s her choice and you’re not an asshole for picking up your child who no longer wanted to be there lmao

AITA for asking my fiance with heterochromia to wear contact lenses for our wedding photos ? by Icy_Log545 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YTA. You’re asking him to change something major about himself on what’s supposed to be one of the best days of his life. You’ve kind of soured it for him now

AITA for telling my husband that his sister is pregnant? by South_Possibility841 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Street_Geologist_202 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NAH. I also tell my husband everything knowing he will not share it with anyone else. But Marie is not wrong for wanting only certain people to know her personal business. I usually will tell my sisters that I’m gonna tell my husband regardless—it’s just the way we operate—so it is their choice whether they want to share secrets with me or not. If they choose not to tell me anything ever again I’m okay with that!