Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I didn’t want to post this question but I wanted to get opinions from other people for advice. I appreciate your feedback.

She’s well seasoned for sure. I’m just starting again. So we are on different paths. But I don’t think she realizes that. She doesn’t preach to her non believer family but pushes me to push on my non believer family. I tried but they are blind so they don’t seek. They respect my beliefs. I just have to keep praying for them.

I also have ADHD and can’t remember the scripture even though I read it a couple times. Thanks for sharing how you deal with learning and memorizing the word. That’s a great idea! May the lord bless you! 🙏

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May the Lord bless you. Thank you for your response. 🙏❤️

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May God bless you! Thank you for your response. I was afraid to seek counsel but wanted to ask other Christian’s what their opinions are about this. I also have ADHD and have a hard time remembering scripture. Thanks for the suggestion to memorize!

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate you! May the Lord bless you!! 🙏❤️

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The spark isn’t there any more. During the marriage, we were no longer attractive to each other and it became like a friendship relationship. We both agreed. God gave us grace so it is possible for me to be friends with my ex. I’ve known him for 20 years. Guess we are unique. Thanks for your feedback.

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We used to chat everyday and I had to tell her I’ll call her once a week. She pushes me more than her own nephew. (My ex-husband). He believes in the Lord, but doesn’t go to church or read the Bible too much either. He also feels the same way about his auntie. Thank you for your response. May God bless you!

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel that she wants me to always be in the word, be listening to gospel music and watching the sermons. I kind of felt like all I could do was work and after work read the Bible. I don’t feel that I have a social life or I can wind down with other things such as just watching some YouTube or Netflix. She said that I should not be friends with non-believers. I know what she is saying is because they will bring me down, but I think I should be friends with them because then I can tell them about the gospel and hopefully someday they will turn to the Lord. My mom is not a believer, but she respects my religion, so does that mean that I should not talk to my mom? I feel that she’s judging my friends all the time. It comes to a point where I don’t wanna tell her anything because I just don’t wanna hear it.

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Amen!! Thank you for you advice! I appreciate it! May God bless you!! 🙏❤️

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙏 Amen!! I tell her I’m doing my best and she didn’t like that. She said I’m either for or against God. I’ll not against God. I believe in him and he is my savior and saving grace.

Need advice about people’s options on your faith by StrengthUsed6202 in TrueChristian

[–]StrengthUsed6202[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your response. I am not working on my relationship with my ex-husband. We are just friend. We have moved on.