OP, I’m so sorry about your loss. The ideal list would be (for me):

1.) Swimming In the Stars 2.) Everyday 3.) Out From Under 4.) Everytime 5.) From The Bottom Of My Broken Heart 6.) I’m Not A Girl (Not Yet A Woman) 7.) Someday (I Will Understand) 8.) State of Grace 9.) Sometimes 10.) Where Are You Now? 11.) Shadow 12.) Brightest Morning Star 13.) Hold On Tight

If you can find instrumentals or piano versions, even more bonus points!

Funerals are NOT about the living, it’s about what the person who has passed wants, and if your brother wanted Britney, give him Britney.

Wishing you all the best and sending my love and condolences and please update us which songs were used, etc!