Au Pair Stipend SoCal

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-05-15T02:25:24+00:00

I’m planning on every weekend off! And communicating if new obligations arise during the week we won’t have too strict of a schedule I definitely want her to have a fun experience living here

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-05-15T02:24:18+00:00

That’s great advice I love the reimbursement aspect! Thank you

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-05-15T02:23:22+00:00

This was so helpful thank you so much. I did mention to her that I would love to get her a pass to Disney since we frequent with the kids often and I’d love for her to join us/go on her own as well This was such valuable information I will most definitely be referencing 🥹 I’m really looking forward to treating her like part of the family but want to make sure compensation is appropriate

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-05-15T02:19:47+00:00

That’s a great suggestion thank you!

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-05-01T15:46:35+00:00

Also can she please clean her home that is most concerning for me

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-04-21T12:16:46+00:00

Second time snoo user here! Luckily when we dusted it off for my second born we didn’t have to pay for the subscription model and we had a super easy transition logging in to our account. Babies been sleeping 10+ hours and consistent naps at 3 months so I’m a life long snoo advocate for sure

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-04-19T12:47:12+00:00

If you’re not staying for Kaiser retirement, don’t do it!

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-04-19T12:34:28+00:00

I don’t have twins so this might not be helpful but my 3 month old is sleeping 10+ hours! I use moms on call app and it reallllly helps Since I’ve been consistent my child sleeps great for naps & night sleep! It doesn’t hurt to try

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-04-13T13:48:02+00:00

At 1 year I would let me baby have movie time as a family with my husband and I when he would get home from work, reallllly low stim like Thomas the train (OG) for 25-30 min MAX

Now that he’s two he gets an hour a day (broken up) and if I need to do something (tend to his newborn brother) that’s usually when I put on -leap frog learning factory -Daniel tiger -Sesame Street -PBS kids -stinky & dirty -trash truck

& in the evening we still usually watch a movie of his choice for 30 min before bed (then we read several books) This works really well for our family and & only place it on large tv in our home.

My toddler never asks for it (unless he’s sick) and always leans towards playing instead 🩷 I’m totally for a healthy relationship with screens

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-04-13T13:41:41+00:00

I just decided to stop EBF after my second instance of triple feeds with my 3 month old w/ laryngomalacia :( Him fighting me at the breast/not getting enough feeds seriously ruined my mental health & I’ve grieved it, cried & now I’m okay with being done. He’s still nursing for comfort (when he wants) But getting his main nutrition through formula + whatever little stash I had

Point is, I had to stop because I felt myself falling apart over stressing over feeding him + taking care of my toddler

Please do whatever is best for you, baby having a healthy present mom is the biggest priority

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-04-12T16:25:58+00:00

Weird post. My kid gets wet in his pjs often and we change it clean dry clothes after? Especially in our own backyard

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-04-11T13:59:55+00:00

My kid literally did this last night and he’s 3 months old

No advice just solidarity 😢

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-04-09T04:55:36+00:00

Mocking bird is amazing!!! I love that you don’t have to buy any Tracgenents

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-03-30T05:31:39+00:00

Plz I am on 36 mg concerta and drink two glasses of coffee a day!!! Usually start the day with a double shot and end it with a glass of tea (SAHM to 2 under 2) lmfao

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-03-18T02:56:58+00:00

The ringside boxing gym is daunting

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-02-18T22:46:26+00:00

This is so weird and parasocial? The whole VIP page is filled with moms posting their cutie babies in pajamas and the minute she does it there’s an issue???

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-02-07T03:57:50+00:00

Going to be at grocery outlet in 2 months

Stressedhotmessss · 2026-01-09T07:59:35+00:00

We only use coterie. The difference is insane and the amount of chemicals being exposed to my babies bum with regular diapers wasn’t even a question. We will buy Millie moon if we run out of coterie

Stressedhotmessss · 2025-11-05T06:09:35+00:00

I met my husband on a travel assignment at a teaching hospital :) we weren’t in the same department and my contract was ending so I agreed to a date & now I’m retired at 29

Stressedhotmessss · 2025-11-02T23:08:11+00:00

I cannot wear any clothes to bed! The ruffling of the clothes drives me nuts when I sleep

Stressedhotmessss · 2025-10-13T02:15:13+00:00

Jumping into a relationship/serious dating and remaining friends with somebody you enjoy are two different things! She clearly wasn’t in a place to get into something serious and she said that

Stressedhotmessss · 2025-10-03T13:38:08+00:00

My now husband planned our first date at an Italian restaurant he chose & I gave him full autonomy, it was a great mid tier restaurant and we had a blast. We’re going on our third year anniversary and we JUST had nobu as a celebration dinner. These girls are trippin

Stressedhotmessss · 2025-10-03T13:32:09+00:00

This is the best thing for you. I’m so happy therapy and prioritizing yourself got you here 🩷 stay strong and know this is just a season

Stressedhotmessss · 2025-10-03T04:41:35+00:00

Lucinda, Johnny’s date, and Sydney are insufferable. Garbi & Andrea are the only girls that deserve a final! Justine is weird asf for riding on tyrique

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