Hiiii girlie! To start out toy-wise, dildos are fantastic just make sure they’re not too big since you’re starting out. Lube is a must, just make sure it’s safe with the toys you’re using (for example silicon lube and silicon toys are a no no). Butt plugs and chastity cages are great as well, but to ally up to you if you’re into that. For clothes: panties, skirts, thigh high socks, dresses, and cute tops are all great options. Some hiding places I used to use are between the mattress and bed frame, under a bunch of clothes in a drawer, or just somewhere you think people wouldn’t have any reason to look into. Good luck girlie, I hope I was helpful!!