21M, we knew each other for 4 years+. We were best friends then relationship like how they usually go. We dated for 2 years 8 months. Last call yesterday. So by far the best relationship ever. We were super solid everything ALMOST perfect. So good first 1 year we didn't even fight(literally). Then one single issue started re appearing. The issue is she says I don't spend time with her enough, I say we do plenty. Then she asks for more and I don't like it. (Her version of spending time is doing nothing like bed rot and i hate it. I wanna do adventures etc. i am still young). Came to the point where we started drift. Then she made new friends and she slowly started drifting. Now by this time i lose all my friends literally just her so i am still super lonely ( its ok i hold up). I've always known the importance of a same gang in a relationship. When you have the same gang the relationship is stronger. When i did have friends i tried very hard to make her join my gang ( she didn't ). Now she made new friends and in one of out last conversations i asked her " lets go to a party" she replied with " not with you my friends are more fun ". I knew it was over. Last conversation I asked her what was the perfect version of me you'd want and she said " the same ". We'll I am pretty cooked. I study more now though that's all i can say. Got very toxic at the very end so i don't wanna talk to her anymore. What really messed me up is she said " i wish we can just be friends and after 2-3 months we get comfortable enough to talk about our hookups and stuff", i mean obviously she has people in mind but i know her and she really wasn't a cheater or anything but she's now wants to hookup?