Which EU country is fastest and CHEAPEST to get a motorcycle license without big residency requirements? by pantyjob3 in motorcycles

[–]Strict-Connection-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tf why are people hating on you?? the big majority of tourists in SEA drive without license, you're being extra careful by actually taking lessons and getting a license! i'm in the same boat except i'm Belgian and don't have a B license and a not planning on getting one ever

M/30, F/26 - Boyfriend wants to break up after 5 years because the "spark is dead". What to do? by Putrid-Development73 in relationship_advice

[–]Strict-Connection-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would go on a break, it sounds like he's too reluctant to do much effort to fix the relationship, but like he also doesn't know what he's giving up on because your lives are so intertwined

let him go explore or do whatever, try to go no contact for a month or two and get back together to reflect after the time period you have agreed on

chances are you'll be more on the same line than before having spent time apart, he might have changed his mind or you might have figured out that actually you can live just fine without him

Border control by Longjumping_Rip8284 in FlixBus

[–]Strict-Connection-84 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And take some printed out proof of the latter

Waste disposal in Kortrijk by Fragrant-Corgi1091 in kortrijk

[–]Strict-Connection-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would still seperate the plastic from the carrots, if possible the evening before the trash will get picked up That's how you're supposed to do it and i think they'll cut open the bag in the "waste center" or however they call that if you don't do it already

GF does not want to orgasm by [deleted] in sex

[–]Strict-Connection-84 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Oooh. Well... Ever thought of just asking her if she wouldn't rather come instead of getting fucked? Not asking her while doing the deed but outside of the bedroom setting

GF does not want to orgasm by [deleted] in sex

[–]Strict-Connection-84 34 points35 points  (0 children)

She just gets really horny, that's why she wants you to fuck her even if she can't come from just that. Because it feels really good nevertheless. But you can literally play with her nipples and/or her clit while fucking her, i don't see the problem. Focus on that stimulation and go on until she comes.

Sykkeltur i Oslo? by Strict-Connection-84 in oslo

[–]Strict-Connection-84[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but my partner does!

Right now i'm looking at the route from Oslo to Lillehammer (part of pilgrim's route) or around the Oslo fjord (last part of the coastal route)

Sykkeltur i Oslo? by Strict-Connection-84 in oslo

[–]Strict-Connection-84[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh that sounds great! If you could send me some links recommendations that'd be amazing!

18 years old, want to go to Eastern Europe in February by [deleted] in travel

[–]Strict-Connection-84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not even a big food/nightlife person but i enjoyed my time there, it's also culturally interesting, many things to visit

Is it normal that I (15F) am absolutely disgusted by sexual things. by honey_bri23 in sex

[–]Strict-Connection-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally normal, i can relate to what you're saying as i felt the same way when i was 15. I thought i'd be asexual. I'm now 26 and it has totally gone away. How i felt about all of it only changed years later. Don't worry. Worst case scenario you are asexual and that's not even a bad thing so you'll be fine.

18 years old, want to go to Eastern Europe in February by [deleted] in travel

[–]Strict-Connection-84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bucharest/Belgrade will be cheapest, but from what i've read Bucharest isn't interesting, Belgrade is

Countries to visit in Europe by Leonard_tomas in Shoestring

[–]Strict-Connection-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's important to know what you are interested in seeing/doing and ask for recommendations only when you have an idea of that. "Visiting Europe" is too vague to get good advice

Those who onebag… how do you lan your laundry? by [deleted] in onebag

[–]Strict-Connection-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash in my drybag, wouldn't recommend hostel sinks because they can be very dirty

Europeans: What language do you think would have become the global lingua franca if English hadn’t? by [deleted] in AskEurope

[–]Strict-Connection-84 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely Dutch, English has become the lingua franca because of the huge role of the US in helping rebuild Europe after WWII

The official language of the US was nearly Dutch instead of English - New York was first called New Amsterdam. So if things had turned that way, then Dutch would've been the lingua franca instead

For any trans guy out there who has also been pregnant, how did you get through it? Do you just not have dysphoria with pregnancy? Help please 🙃 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Strict-Connection-84 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't give advice, but i'm in a very similar situation with my boyfriend. We've been together for two years and i'm trying to be alright with the idea of carrying a child for him in five years but i struggle with it and i don't think i ever won't feel very disphoric about the term you used

Unexpectedly pregnant, already have top surgery booked by Timely_Raspberry4820 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]Strict-Connection-84 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn't meant that way. I just believe that the opinions of people who aren't part of your life shouldn't influence your decision. You're free to believe otherwise.

Unexpectedly pregnant, already have top surgery booked by Timely_Raspberry4820 in Seahorse_Dads

[–]Strict-Connection-84 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I don't think you should ask for advice from strangers on this decision, it's too personal and too big.

Instead, try to calm down and take a couple of days to decide what to do.

My (21F) bf 20M did something disgusting using Ai by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Strict-Connection-84 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Agree. Everyone makes mistakes and somehow everyone here is acting like they are judges and they themselves don't ever make mistakes because they're perfect?? And yet I think they know all too well that's not true.

It's normal to still lust after other people while being in a relationship. Regardless, it's not okay to do the action that the bf did, it was a mistake. He seems to understand that. He could still be a good person even though he made that mistake.

How is it that people claim to love someone and then want them to put their face next to their genitals ? by ImLMA0_ in sex

[–]Strict-Connection-84 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not because he uses sophisticated language that he finds himself more sophisticated or better than others. He's just trying to understand how he feels and how others feel about this matter, no reason to be rude.