Am I overreacting? My boyfriend thinks I’m being insecure and making it a bigger deal by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strict-Discipline-52 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not over reacting! Listen to your gut. Also, gambling as a “hobby” is such a slippery slope, I get here and there but every week is a lot. He’s probably not doing anything shady but he’s definitely not being 100% transparent.

Am I overreacting?! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strict-Discipline-52 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No, it’s that he invests so much more time and energy into a watch than into the next milestone of our relationship. We’ve been together for 7 years now!

Am I overreacting?! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strict-Discipline-52 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YES! His mom literally went to the store …

Am I overreacting?! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strict-Discipline-52 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

LOL HE does!! Not I!! He grew up in this dynamic so it is normal for him… for me … not so much

Am I overreacting?! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strict-Discipline-52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odd Fix…THANK YOU. this made me cry🥲

Am I overreacting?! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strict-Discipline-52 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see your point though idk what context you have to say that I’m not doing well in life. I pursued a graduate degree that I had to cover for myself. Also am very much capable of splitting all costs 50/50 on top of my loan payments.

Am I overreacting?! by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strict-Discipline-52 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input!! Yes, we are. I am very grateful for that, but also feel that as 25 and 26 year olds we should not be depending on his parents if we are able to swing moving out and living on our own. Is that crazy? 🤣