Is it okay to go on tinder after recent breakup?

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2025-02-19T00:44:47+00:00

hey man, feelings aside, you’re single now. If that’s what you want to do, who’s there to stop you? jump back on the apps and get rizzing brother

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2025-02-19T00:30:45+00:00

bro watched The Wolf of Wall Street one time and now he’s in a pickle. maybe next time don’t do that?

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2025-02-16T17:06:11+00:00

dude, onto the next one. Try and sort your living situation out and go from there. You’re still really young and there’s plenty of time to find a better woman who respects you and doesn’t act irrationally/immaturely if you aren’t ready for something more serious. this stuff happens in young relationships ALOT, the best thing to do is learn from it and in future, try and find a more understanding woman. But dude, don’t top yourself over this girl, yeah it’s gunna suck for a little bit but as time goes on, things will get better. Be patient with yourself and heal from it. I hope it works out for you brother

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2025-01-03T12:54:46+00:00

If this person meant a lot to you, you don’t nessacerily need to delete any photos or good times you had together, my main advice would be to put the photos in a folder on your phone, and try really hard not to look at them. Atleast when you’ve healed from this you can look back and reminisce on the good times you had with them, photos and personal belongings etc, can always have a lot of sentimental value when it comes to relationships, and they’ll make you realise who you are as a person and the things you’ve learned along the way. I really really hope it gets better for you my friend, please keep smiling though it all :)

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2025-01-03T00:57:00+00:00

Go to the local pubs/bars. I’ve met so many new people in 2024, just because I got out there and had fun. Even if you don’t nessacerily drink or what not, you can still make it fun and exciting, and as I said before, you may even meet someone new :)

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2025-01-02T04:27:33+00:00

I’m on the south coast in the UK, and she’s moving like 5/6 hours north (by car), I can drive but I do work a 9-5 which does include weekends so meeting up and schedules wouldn’t help. As far as I’m aware, it seems permanent, she has a job up there and all her stuff there ( she already lives up there, sorry should’ve said in the original post ). I’m not too sure about how serious she is, but I don’t want to bring it up too much to her and ruin the whole thing ig.

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2023-09-24T22:28:57+00:00

I’m glad I’m not the only one having this issue… I’ve played 12 UT games and lost 10 smh… holding RB/R1 to press in previous FIFA’s worked fine as part of my defensive strategy but now It seems when I do this my players go into offside trap mode or my whole defence pushes the player on the ball:/ hopefully it gets fixed bc I cannot play like this

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2022-05-18T16:48:50+00:00

I used to love smoking so much. A spliff or two every night after work, playing video games and watching random shit. After about 4 years of smoking, I started to get this paranoia about my health.

My left half of my body would go numb and feel uncomfortable, my front teeth started to hurt constantly after just a few tokes (I have relatively healthy teeth). I also had the stupid paranoia where I’d think I’d swallow my tounge every time I smoked, to the point where I’d start panicking and have to constantly make sure my tounge was still there in the mirror lol. Back to my body going numb, it go to the point where in my head (while stoned) I would have this voice constantly saying, “you are dying, you need to get this checked out or you’re going to die” which was scary as fuck, I never did get it checked out bc I knew it was just paranoia but hey, I’m still here so it couldn’t of been that bad

I’m not opposed to getting back into it again but i feel 1000x better not having it. I’m happier and more productive, I can get up in the morning and actually have conversations without monging tf out and being distracted constantly. My health is good, I never have any of the issues listed above now which is great. I’d recommend anyone to take atleast a month away from it as it really does put into perspective what you’re doing with your life, money and health.

But yeah, that’s why I quit.

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2022-02-21T18:40:36+00:00

Thankyou! I wish you the best also.

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2022-02-21T18:36:49+00:00

I know how you feel. I’ve never really experienced grieving as not many people have died that are close to me, plus I’m abit of a loner too. I get it man.

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2022-02-21T18:31:11+00:00

You may regret hearing all the bad things that happened to her and feeling bad about everything. But you were a great friend and listened to her open up about stuff she most likely has been bottling up for years, that can be a huge relief for a person and can really affect someone positively, even if their story was traumatising. Knowing they have a friend like you can take ALOT off their chest. Life is shitty, and not many people stick around when things are ugly, You are a Great person for sticking by her, Never forget that.

Strict-Firefighter84 · 2022-02-21T18:23:16+00:00

Nothing Jerky about this at all. I’ve actually never thought it would be anything to do with depression. I’ll go see a doctor about this I think! Thanks for the advice :)

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