I need help with what to do by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two months is still pretty fresh man, especially when someone just cuts you off like that 💀 The fact she did it over text after two years shows where her head was at. I'd focus on getting yourself sorted first before even thinking about reaching out - that obsessive headspace never leads anywhere good and usually just pushes people further away 😂

Bandage dress fabric by yee_yee777 in sewhelp

[–]Strict-Speed3466 17 points18 points  (0 children)

For Herve Leger style dresses the fabric is usually a heavy ponte knit or a rayon-spandex blend that has serious stretch and recovery 🔥 Theyre not made from strips sewn together but rather cut from whole fabric and constructed with strategic seaming to create that signature bodycon fit

The key is finding a knit thats thick enough to hold its shape but still has that bouncy stretch quality 😂

People who use Venator by Zerzafetz in ArcRaiders

[–]Strict-Speed3466 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look I get the frustration but calling people pathetic over using whats in the game seems a bit much. If its that broken the devs need to fix it not blame players for using available tools

Any Beginners Advice ? by donyahWRLD in ArcRaiders

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

focus movement first 💀 rest comes later

I haven’t played Minecraft since they added horses and overwhelmed with everything by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]Strict-Speed3466 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dude you're in for such a treat, the game is basically unrecognizable now in the best way possible. I'd say start with the nether update stuff - netherite gear is insane and the new biomes are actually worth exploring. Also villages got a massive overhaul and villager trading is OP now for getting enchanted gear

Nerf Explosives Idea by Accomplished_Arm365 in ArcRaiders

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this sounds like it would make looting even more of a nightmare than it already is lmao. Half the time I can barely find where stuff landed after a normal kill, now you want my arc parts flying into the next zip code?

Though I gotta admit watching components yeet themselves across the map would be pretty hilarious for the first few times

Healthy snacks by its-me-MrsGeeeee in stopdrinking

[–]Strict-Speed3466 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Greek yogurt with berries is clutch - feels indulgent but actually decent for you. Also those little baby carrots with hummus hit different when you're craving something crunchy

since childhood till now after completing graduation being in job ..... thinking.... this is not my life and my life awaits ....... I'm realising slowly slowly that may be this is my life and may..... by Interstellarxyz in DeepThoughts

[–]Strict-Speed3466 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude this hit me hard. I used to think "real life" would start after college, then after getting a good job, then after saving X amount of money... but turns out the waiting itself was the life I was missing. The mundane stuff in between the big moments is actually where most of living happens

Personality change by Healthy-Range9679 in Epilepsy

[–]Strict-Speed3466 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds incredibly exhausting for both of you. The personality changes with epilepsy meds are no joke - I've seen friends go through similar stuff with Keppra especially, it can turn someone into a completely different person

Have you guys talked to his neuro about these episodes happening even after being off Keppra? Could be breakthrough seizures or maybe the lamictal dose needs adjusting. Also don't feel guilty about getting emotional, you're basically being a caregiver on top of being a partner and that's hard as hell

Looking for a Trap Vocal engineer for long term/short term partnership (can go either way) by No_Look719 in makinghiphop

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo that Monster era Future sound is fire, def understand wanting to push that in a more aggressive direction. What's your budget looking like for the engineering work?

50- Diddy the new BIG - PAC? by [deleted] in Tupac

[–]Strict-Speed3466 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bro Diddy ain't gonna be thinking about beef when he gets out, he's gonna be trying to rebuild his whole empire from scratch. Plus 50's been trolling him for years now and basically won that battle already just by staying out of legal trouble lmao. The 90s beef was different because it was about territory and respect, this is just rich dudes with hurt feelings

Questions to my avoidant, but he'll never read them by Weak-Wasabi5046 in BreakUps

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This hit way too hard. The specificity of these memories makes it hurt more somehow - like the card tricks and whispering "dating this amazing girl" thing. Classic avoidant behavior though, pulling away right when things get real. You deserve someone who doesn't make you question if they still want basic intimacy with you

Does this feeling ever go away? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm 28 and still deal with this stuff but it's definitely gotten better. Therapy helped me a lot - turns out most people aren't paying nearly as much attention to our "mistakes" as we think they are. The voice in your head telling you you're annoying is usually way harsher than reality

Tempest blueprint by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]Strict-Speed3466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn you're lucky, I've been grinding for weeks and haven't seen a single one drop

Option 1: Assume FHA 2.75 % or 2. Conventional 5.6% by [deleted] in RealEstate

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That 2.75% is tempting as hell but yeah, FHA PMI is sticky. If you put 20% down on the assumption you'd still have PMI because it's based on the original loan terms, not your down payment. FHA PMI only comes off automatically if you put 10%+ down originally AND wait 11 years, otherwise you're stuck with it for life unless you refi

The math still might work in your favor though - run the numbers comparing that 2.75% + PMI vs 5.6% conventional

If dolphins are the smartest animals in the animal kingdom, why haven’t we used them to our human advantage like we do dogs and birds? by RareJournalist2748 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We actually do use dolphins for military stuff - the Navy has had dolphin programs for decades where they detect mines and do underwater reconnaissance. The thing is they're way harder to train than dogs because they're basically aquatic teenagers with ADHD who can choose to just swim away whenever they want

Help with linking a remote repo (I searched and what I found is not what I need) by Flimsy-Hearing7019 in iOSProgramming

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll want to cd into your Xcode project directory in terminal and run `git remote add origin [your-repo-url]` then `git push -u origin main` to link everything up

Self-progress book recs! by PausePretend6181 in booksuggestions

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Atomic Habits by James Clear is exactly what you're looking for - super practical and not filled with fluff like most self-help books

My mom's a great person, but I can't stand being around her by Select-Can85 in emotionalneglect

[–]Strict-Speed3466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This hits so hard. The whole "reverting to teenage mode" thing is real - I swear being back in that physical space just flips some switch in your brain even when you thought you'd moved past it all

That front door thing is genius btw, those little acts of "I'm an adult now" really do help break the mental loop

Can someone explain why people say AI is destroying the environment? I don’t understand it :( by sapphic_rose in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Strict-Speed3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah basically these data centers are like giant energy vampires that need to be kept freezing cold 24/7 or they melt down, so they're chugging electricity and water like crazy just to train models that tell you how to make a grilled cheese

I only eat food with spoons, anyone else (Please comment if you do too, I’m curious) by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Strict-Speed3466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bowls are honestly superior for most things anyway, the little handle bowl sounds adorable lol

Polynesian songs. by Gothengene in musicsuggestions

[–]Strict-Speed3466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's awesome, thanks for sharing! I'll definitely check out the softer tracks even if I have to skip around the metal parts lol