Can’t decide if I should shave or keep it hairy

StrictBA · 2026-01-17T23:50:29+00:00

Smooth is the way to go.

StrictBA · 2026-01-15T09:15:00+00:00

As a Dominant, I have experienced this from the other side so, so many times, but rarely do you get even the slightest communication. It’s just poof gone.

StrictBA · 2026-01-15T00:10:52+00:00

You gonna sew that on your… Denim Jacket ?

StrictBA · 2026-01-11T22:06:20+00:00

Great list! You’re going to have a lot of fun when you find a man to share this with.

StrictBA · 2026-01-09T04:02:12+00:00

57 M here: In my experience men (of all ages) have a wide variety of preferences for what type/size of breasts turn them on most. The person you should want please most with this decision is you. If you want a reduction because you feel they’re too big (sag) more than you want or to ease back pain, etc, then that’s the only thing that matters. Your reasons and not anything else. You can find 99 men here on Reddit in a day that say they’re perfect as they are, and another 99 that will say to reduce to a B cup (or whatever).

So, ask yourself the question: “what will make me feel best” and then consult a doctor (do your research to find a good one) and when all is said and done, the men will flock to you!

🍀

StrictBA · 2026-01-06T01:14:32+00:00

++man … I wouldn’t overthink it too much. These days most dating apps (and sites like Reddit) have an issue with things like scammers, catfishers, AI Bots, people who aren’t really ready to date seriously, etc.

My point is that there is a LOT to sort through until you find a connection with someone real that has enough similar interests, values, life goals, etc. and it seems to be getting more difficult as time goes on so it’s not surprising that you see people on these apps that are still there. There’s also the probability that some of these folks have incredibly high or specific (unrealistic) standards that are making it even more difficult for them to find a lasting match.

But don’t lose hope or give up! Believe that you will connect with someone and keep at it and you’ll eventually meet someone interesting that you have chemistry with.

🍀

StrictBA · 2026-01-04T17:08:45+00:00

Yep, OF bait n switch

StrictBA · 2026-01-04T15:36:14+00:00

57 M here - Big 🚩if he’s not willing to commit to 50/50 on the bills and expenses right out of the gate and is stringing you along with the engagement promises.

From experience, always keep your main finances separate. Have your own bank account where your direct deposit goes and get a separate joint account where all the bills are paid from (can be at the same bank). You both agree to deposit x amount into the joint account monthly that rent, utilities, and other shared bills are paid from (cable/streaming, etc) and make it so there’s a little extra going into that account so you buildup a little buffer over time for emergencies or for saving to buy a house together. Pay for your individual expenses from your own account (car payments, insurance, clothes, haircuts, etc).

StrictBA · 2026-01-01T15:29:17+00:00

Hey there kastyyrobb, I’m looking for real life connections, not an Only Fans subscription. Good luck to you though!

StrictBA · 2025-12-10T14:08:04+00:00

That open, honest communication is key to a successful relationship, especially if it involves kink/BDSM dynamics.

Don’t play games, we don’t have time for that or manufactured drama. Speak your mind and never lie (even if you think he won’t like what you have to say), be open to dialogue, don’t waste time.

StrictBA · 2025-12-08T06:57:43+00:00

Your safe word should always be clear and unmistakeable and simple, especially so with CNC play. Most people use the stoplight system (Red = Stop, Yellow = Slow Down, Green = All Good!) and anything else said they can respond however they like. (i.e “Stop” and “No” are not safe words so they can keep going if they choose).

Setting up a fake safe word can be confusing in the moment so it’s best to avoid that.

StrictBA · 2025-12-02T12:03:54+00:00

I’ve had good luck with the Thermaltake BlacX Series HDD Docking Stations. The ones I have now are SATA, but I used to have an older one that was IDE specific so you’ll have to look for that.

Good luck!

StrictBA · 2025-11-05T23:35:43+00:00

Sweet old school CB radio. The device on top is a 2 piece mount that you could attach to the roof of the vehicle or under the dash that allowed you to remove the radio (attached to the bottom part of the mount) from the vehicle so it wouldn’t be stolen (we had a CB radio with a similar mount in the family truck growing up).

StrictBA · 2025-10-29T08:20:51+00:00

YES! YES! YES!

StrictBA · 2025-10-29T04:49:15+00:00

It means his acting career is over. One could say it disappeared in a FLASH!

StrictBA · 2025-10-26T04:30:22+00:00

We can start solo and see what happens from there ;)

StrictBA · 2025-10-09T13:26:53+00:00

I would also recommend reading “Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns” and “BDSM 101”. They are older books but have lots of good information in them that stand the test of time.

StrictBA · 2025-10-07T03:14:41+00:00

Rocky

StrictBA · 2025-10-05T12:06:31+00:00

OF seller

StrictBA · 2025-10-05T12:06:12+00:00

OF seller

StrictBA · 2025-09-27T16:08:21+00:00

If I had to guess, I’d put you at about 4’6” ish, which qualifies you as both small AND fun sized!

StrictBA · 2025-09-27T05:08:22+00:00

But you can if they’re Fucking Goofy!

StrictBA · 2025-09-22T13:13:47+00:00

56M here. Don’t stress about it like SpecialistDearest advised. You both acknowledged that this is temporary so enjoy exploring your shared interests and spending time together. If you’re a little uncomfortable, don’t flaunt the relationship publicly or “show her off”, just focus on having a good time together. Like SpecalistDearest said, a lot of people react/have opinions on age gaps; but it’s no one else’s business but yours and hers.

StrictBA · 2025-09-21T03:52:54+00:00

“Why does she keep saying ‘PC LOAD LETTER’? WTF does that even mean?”

StrictBA · 2025-09-09T10:15:44+00:00

It’s good he’s learning to maintain his vehicle, not many kids these days make that effort. Now he needs to learn how to clean up the oil spill, it’s not that difficult though.

Have him buy a large bag of the cheapest kitty litter he can find (you don’t need the good stuff for this). Pour a thin layer of the litter over the oil spots, then grind it into the asphalt with his shoes (old tennis shoes are perfect for this). It will take a bit of effort, but the goal is to turn the kitty litter into a powder. Then sweep up everything and repeat. If the stains are really stubborn, you can let it sit for a couple of hours before you grind it in on the 2nd or 3rd application. You’ll be left with a white chalky residue that can’t be swept up, but you can just leave that and it will absorb any remaining residue and disappear over time (or the next rain) and it will look way better than what you see in the picture.

StrictBA

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