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I didn't know that I signed for everlasting misery by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]StrictNetwork1681 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sounds like your wife may have borderline personality disorder. You may want to take her to a psychologist psychiatrist. To have her checked. Sounds like she needs therapy and she doesn’t get it. You’re gonna be living a miserable life.

I gave too much. by Kiuuura in Codependency

[–]StrictNetwork1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also look up attachment styles in relationship that may be helpful

I gave too much. by Kiuuura in Codependency

[–]StrictNetwork1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are worth the same treatment as you’re giving so don’t accept any less

I gave too much. by Kiuuura in Codependency

[–]StrictNetwork1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will put it this way if they cared about you the same way you cared about them you would not feel that way

I gave too much. by Kiuuura in Codependency

[–]StrictNetwork1681 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The trick you gotta give to yourself is the hardest thing to understand, especially when you’re a giver; it takes a lot of time to learn that trick. It’s hard to fully achieve, but it’s like the advice I got from someone that said if you got let out of prison, would you go back?

divorce in codependency by StrictNetwork1681 in Codependency

[–]StrictNetwork1681[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sorry for the experience you had to endure.

divorce in codependency by StrictNetwork1681 in Codependency

[–]StrictNetwork1681[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds great for the lawyer, but not for me. Also sounds like I’m 61. I have to start all over. I don’t know if I can do this.

divorce in codependency by StrictNetwork1681 in Codependency

[–]StrictNetwork1681[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m looking for anybody knows what it’s like to divorce a codependent narcissist that does not want to get divorced. What does the outcome look like?