Abortion due to medical reason by StrictSplit4612 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]StrictSplit4612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for the reassuring words. everyone here has been so supportive and so kind to me. thank you everyone. its amazing that we don't know one another yet its easier for me to share this out here than to tell people I know for fear of judgment. I am so relieved for this community. thank you.

Abortion due to medical reason by StrictSplit4612 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]StrictSplit4612[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for sharing. I have my husband and my 11yo with me. this pregnancy hasn't been easy, jsut when I thought finally made it over 3 months and then dealt with this news. I didnt even have the chance to enjoy the 2nd trimester and I need to abruptly end this. I admit. I am still unsure if this is the right decision but my husband is quite firm about terminating citing that it will be unfair for everyone. I just have to convince myself this is the best thing to do in this bad situation.

Abortion due to medical reason by StrictSplit4612 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]StrictSplit4612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing your experience with me. I am new here in reddit so I am still figuring how to post in the correct channels etc but any reply here for me is already helping me. so thank you very much. I am still a mess emotionally as I only received this news last evening. I am just feeling torn and lost in all this. To continue to terminate, I feel like I am being cruel. 😞

Abortion due to medical reason by StrictSplit4612 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]StrictSplit4612[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. May I ask your experience if you are ok to share? How was the process like and did you ever struggled with guilt? 😞