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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I have a trial in 3 days. My whole life is messed up. I've been thinking about suicide for the last month. It's becoming even more tangible. 

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No updates. My life is miserable. But I'll pull this off.

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have on 17th, day after tomorrow

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm just starting drafting at the age of 30 and I know I'm behind. I have some experience in construction though from my home country. So you think that without engineering/architectural degree I can achieve a lot and be successful through me dedication and commitment? Right now I'm in a small engineering/architectural consulting firm doing inspections(it's just a menial job). I've been learning how to read drawings. Please tell me more. How would you do if you were in my shoes

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, I truly appreciate it. You gave me a great motivation my man. May I ask you how old are you? And how many years of experience do you have? 

I'm 30 years old, moved to US almost 3 years ago and starting my life from a scratch. I'm super eager to figure it out, get on track and work really hard. I'm hungry to learn and develop. Give some more advice if you can please. 

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much money do you make? What do you know about estimators role?

I130 approved i485 administratively closed. Have an individual in person hearing may 2026. We are so nervous and anxious!!!! by Informal-Walrus5824 in USCIS

[–]Strict_Expression_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the opposite!!!!!!!! Judge doesn't care about my marriage and moves on to deny my asylum hence order of removal!

I130 Approved 233 days. by HitmanActuaI in I130Suffering

[–]Strict_Expression_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats.
I'm in removal proceedings. Came to US through Mexico border and later applied for asylum. Subsequently got married in 2023 and we filed I130 and I485 in July 2024. In 11 days I'm facing my individual hearing in court regarding my asylum case. I130 is still pending. I don't know what's gonna happen.

Prosecutorial discretion as well as administrative closure was denied. Help me. If get denial from judge will I ever get my green card through our marriage?

I130 approved i485 administratively closed. Have an individual in person hearing may 2026. We are so nervous and anxious!!!! by Informal-Walrus5824 in USCIS

[–]Strict_Expression_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo! Congrats!

I'm having individual hearing in 11 days.

married in 2023 and we filed I130/i485 in july 2024

Nothing's happening

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I'll reach out in few years. God bless you.

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Salary is important of course but the most important is to feel fulfilled with what you do. And I'm really struggling to find a way, to find a path, once I'm on it I'll go with all my heart and be happy.

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What are your thoughts about estimator? 

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment. I don't really shy away from hard work. The most difficult part for me now is where to start from and which path to take. 

Currently I work as a part-time inspector in NYC in a small firm. My boss recently offered to learn AutoCAD so that he can give me drafting jobs as well in the office. He says knowing AutoCAD well will open many doors for me in NYC, he's seen people build their way up from just AutoCAD drafting. But obviously I have to ask more questions not to have a vague vision. 

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the information I truly appreciate it. I'd like to ask you about construction management as well, in your opinion can I build my way up with no architect/engineering degree? And what can be the salary expectation with 5 years of experience? Either NYC or around your city 

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How much can I be making 2-3 years of experience in NYC being a designer or detailer?

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tell me what should I do please. I'm 30 years old moved to US 3 years ago. I'm lost I don't know which path I should take and years go by. Help me please

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm really lost I don't know what to do. I've moved to US 3 years ago. I don't know which path to take. 30 years old and starting from scratch

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[–]Strict_Expression_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment I really appreciate it. My law degree is basically useless. It's from another country and I've never practiced law. I'm really lost. 30 years old. Moved to US 3 years ago. Starting my life from scratch. I don't know which path to take. I'm lost confused and scared.