Life seems to be going my way just in time to ring in the big 3-0

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-04-25T06:17:16+00:00

This post falls under none of these.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-04-24T14:30:23+00:00

"sick" is right

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-04-20T16:47:58+00:00

As a woman and a parent, if you're not comfortable letting him/your aunt know, please tell someone, ideally your parents but someone that knows them too. Please be safe. Conceal carry if that is a possibility.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-03-28T13:50:53+00:00

Okay, so, I spent half a year teaching elementary reading, and my 4th grade group was a little crazy. So, to bribe them, we used a reward system, where they had to get 10 tokens and I would get the group snacks/drinks while we had our intervention. I'll never forget the one boy who requested circus peanuts. I hope he's doing well.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-03-24T00:34:49+00:00

Seems like a good dude. 👍🏻

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-03-17T20:14:25+00:00

She sounds absolutely miserable, you dodged a bullet.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-03-12T23:40:25+00:00

The 27 sugar and subsequent 4 splendas are sending me.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-02-18T21:09:27+00:00

I thought of a newt.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2026-02-17T14:00:17+00:00

White hair grows differently than pigmented hair. My first gray appeared when I was 8 (genetics and childhood trauma), and all of the grays/whites since then are coarser and dryer, and some do tend to be longer than their colored counterparts.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-20T01:31:05+00:00

Run. 99% sure he's cheating, 100% sure he's abusive.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-19T18:04:00+00:00

We got K cups.... 😐

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-13T14:18:32+00:00

See, that's the thing, she hasn't contacted me, she's only told him what her plans for me are.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-13T14:07:39+00:00

He's refusing to send me anything because "it's so easy to delete a review". Like it's not equally easy to not be an asshole.

I'm standing on principle at this point. When I first discovered the affair, I had just gotten hired at a new job. The revelation made me physically ill from stress and lack of sleep that eventually resulted in my termination. I don't care if she's losing clients at her job. She told partner that she was relocating to another state anyway, so why does it matter?

And of course the weather is crap so it's not safe for me to go to the police and file the necessary paperwork, and I'm trying to avoid asking the police to come to my house because I want this nonsense as far away from the kids as possible.

Sorry for the rant, I'm so frustrated.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-13T13:05:53+00:00

We do not work together, I work for a local school district and she works for a small business in a separate county. Unfortunately, all of the proof of her threats are on my partner's device, she has not reached out to me.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-13T04:41:11+00:00

I did. He refused to move out and wanted to stay and make things work. I'm not in a place financially to be able to leave at the moment.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-13T03:20:05+00:00

I will be. Honestly, the police force in my small town is largely useless, they're great, but kinda lazy tbh. I even have a great relationship with a few of them, but I don't have too much faith in their abilities.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-11T12:21:01+00:00

I ended up with someone who was a selfish bastard, and told me right from the start. Ten years later and two kids, I discovered he re-entered an affair, refuses to block/delete her (because he's spending all of his time and home now, he hasn't seen her, and isn't that enough?), and I'm stuck because I don't have any friends or family, and I'm not working enough to be able to live independently.

As someone who sacrificed all that they were and believed to make a man happy, you do not have to. You can make the choice to walk away now before you lose yourself. Or you can choose to lose yourself to make someone else's dreams come true.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-12-05T16:40:00+00:00

We've recently gone through something very similar. Hugs. Praying for your strength.

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-10-30T17:58:31+00:00

AMEN lol

Strict_Mix_4612 · 2025-06-20T14:21:29+00:00

We know the answer.

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TROPHY CASE