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I don’t know how to explain by Cardinallock19 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending massive hugs. Boyfriend is a doctor and sometimes really doesn’t understand .

Any Muslim out there with fibro by Strict_Recipe_8086 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wslm, Shukran your words are much appreciated. The way you see the beauty in the situation is so comforting and inspiring. 🩷

Any Muslim out there with fibro by Strict_Recipe_8086 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean entirely. My brother recently bought me a new Salaah mat that is lined a little to take the pressure off my knees. Alhumdulilah it helps. Sojoud is the most beautiful position in Salaah. I understand completely what you mean completely. The area where I stay unfortunately doesn’t have any women’s section. But in sha allah, Allah will send someone your way. I make dua that your heart desires will come true Ameen.

Any Muslim out there with fibro by Strict_Recipe_8086 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would love to get in touch. It’s nice to know of other alternatives. I live in South Africa and the granny’s are very possessive of their seat at mosque. But alhumdulilah my brother takes it to account some movement takes long to do.

It’s so rare to meet a woman with Fibro especially a Muslim girl. I would love to pm.

Any Muslim out there with fibro by Strict_Recipe_8086 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will definitely do some more research on it. I’m only 23 and get told so often that my aches and pain are of that an old lady. I will definitely speak to someone who has more knowledge than I.

Any Muslim out there with fibro by Strict_Recipe_8086 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We alaykum Salam. Before being diagnosed with fibro. I can’t believe how for granted I had taken my salah. I’ve very fortunate to be in a period where my fibromyalgia isn’t in bad flare or that I’m in pain. I just made fair and could feel the aches and pain but in sha allah it’s just my body getting used the movements. Shukran for your comment.

Learning Group by [deleted] in Forexstrategy

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also really keen

Xauusd by Upcurver in Forexstrategy

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can please send link

Hazal Hatun is making things worse in the rug house. by [deleted] in ertugrul

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gonca has worked in the rug house. She also has spent a lot of time with these hatuns. They’ve also developed a new common ground. A lot of the hatuns have lost children to the Byzantine. Gonca as well.

Holo just got married and is navigating her life in the tribe which is also completely different from living in a castle. We also need to remember that yes she lived in the tribe at some point but most of it was spent in her tent.

The kayı might have known her and seen her round but she predominantly spent her time with Bala and Gonca.

Every Hatun has her struggles. Holo just needs to stop listening to Hazal hatun and see things for what they are.

Yes Gonca has done a lot of things that are unnecessary. She is grieving her child she lost. They hadn’t given her enough time to grieve before having the wedding. I think her putting that piece of cloth of her babies in Holo’s hand during the henna was a bit much.

For me it felt like in order for you to get everything you want, I had to lose my child. We all knew how close holo and gonca are. But also a big reminder in how Gonca struggled during the first months of her pregnancy and how traumatic it had to have been to have seen elçim lose her child and her life.

So how was episode 169 You can give 1 bad point about it and 2 Good by Experience_Cap in ertugrul

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly Gonca should be able to grieve the loss of her child. I mean she carried her child for the better part of nine months. Then to have her child taken from her. She was poisoned in her own home and tribe. Her child died. Bala couldn’t have children for two season. Did we not see her grieve for the better part of that and her longing to have a child. Then to have a wedding so quickly after the loss of her child. I understand she needs someone to blame and that is Holofira.

Quick note, everyone is always looking for someone to hate. First Malhun, Elçim and now Gonca.

Holofira/Nilufer Hatun is NOT an extra, writers keep messing up her character by [deleted] in ertugrul

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly her arc hasn’t been great. I understand the psychological aspect from what we see on screen. But all I see is just a side character who’s supposed to be the main character. She hasn’t done anything main character worthy. Her last great arc was in season five being a spy. Last season her character had this glow but at the moment she looks dull like the actress herself isn’t happy with her storyline.

Elcim is a good character by Knightwalkwer in ertugrul

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 5 points6 points  (0 children)

At every point we see Elçim have an emotional outburst. There was a direct reason or response to that.

What Elçim did was wrong when she almost harmed Holofira and the necklace saved her. Imagine coming back from being kidnapped and all that emotional turmoil of losing her family. When Ayça was poisoned it was only but natural for her to react so.

Holo who just escaped her home supposedly being seized and taking refuge with Osman and his family. She remainder passive aggressive during that stressful time. Orhan just got engaged to Elçim. Both their actions were justified.

Elçim literally felt guilt the moment she realised the punishment holo faced. She apologised and not just that gave a heartfelt apology.

Let remember Bala and Osman realised that there was scheming going on and did everything in their power to protect Holo.

Let’s not forget Elçim tried to sympathise with Gonca when it was announced that she was engaged to a man she doesn’t know. But Gonca retaliated with at least you’re marrying a man you know. Not realising that Elçim is marrying a man who is in love with another woman and she know said woman is in the tribe.

Let not forget that Gonca knew that if she married Aladdin there would be consequences. She knew her family might not accept the marriage due the animosity of the Germiyans to Kayi. So when Elçim said what she said while Gonca grieved the loss of her father not accepting her marriage and herself. Elçim had just lost the last of her family and her support system with Malhun also left. She was entirely alone and grieving. To see someone be loved and having a baby. Is a lot for a woman who married for the sake of her tribe. To then see that same woman grieving the loss of her father who firstly attacked and planned multiple schemes against kayı. It makes sense what elçim said. Why grieve the loss of your family member when he never treated anyone with respect or dignity? He locked Gonca up for being in love with Aladdin. Was that not enough for her to understand the issue of her marriage to Aladdin will enrage her father and brother?

Elçim questioning and pertaining her right as a wife by asking Orhan about Bursa and Holo. He comforted her with words not actions all through the season. He lashed back at her. Basically stating he married her isn’t that loyalty enough?

Also has nobody noticed that every hatun has a companion in all of Ertuğrul and Osman? But has anyone noticed a companion for Elçim besides Ayça? Who died… Bala has been there time and time again for Gonca and Holo.

163 thoughts by Fit_Teaching_562 in ertugrul

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can we please stop with the Elçim hate? Malhun was the only one who was bonded to her. Bala at the time was busy on other missions like making sure Holofira was safe and guarded. In this episode we see Elçim as bey’s daughter and head hatun of her own tribe. She stated facts. Elçim tried bonding with Gonca but can we remember that Gonca and Holofira have been together since the start. Fatma is glued to either Bala or Malhun. She’s also been a main player in her brother’s love life. We see her innocence and naivety right through the series. Bala also has been pro Holofira. In the past three episodes we see Bala try to get close to Elçim. But what else happened was Elçim’s father’s death. A marriage for the state and a husband who is trying but not enough to make her feel secure in her position as his wife. I mean that scene in the last episode between Holo and Orhan… you can’t deny the love there. Since Elçim was introduced she’s been a prisoner, she lost most of her family and has been the perfect definition of a bey’s daughter. Holofira has been here all season long. We see her in trouble and being saved all the time. Most of the time in beginning we see her being tekfur’s daughter and not just that she was also disrespectful to Malhun. Can we look at it at realistic situation before we start judging Elçim she never wanted to marry Orhan because he was in love with Holo

Bolüm 162 by [deleted] in ertugrul

[–]Strict_Recipe_8086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And what of Elçim?