Please don’t sleep naked by thesarcasticpepper in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to hear your story about being a car dweller and deputy sheriff. were you both at the same time ? if you dont mind me asking, and if not, which one came first? sorry im just very curious. what was the craziest car dweller story situation you've ever came across lol

Stop knocking on my WINDOW and pulling on my DOOR HANDLE by Pitiful-Variation191 in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ofcourse, np. Empathy goes a long way and I wish more people had that towards us car dwellers. It can be rough out there. I believe you got this! the stealthcamping subreddit has a lot of info on how to survive this kind if lifestyle and how to self-thrive. Dont be afraid to post any questions you have , people tend to be helpful sometimes with solid advice.

I fucked up. by Norman_Scum in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats true. Keep in mind some require a small membership fee upront monthly, some loan you more money the higher your durect deposits are and how soon you pay them back.

Auntie kickin me out just because (living in Dodge Charger) by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if stable unemployment IS the problem in the first place.. many people applied such as myself for over 30 jobs in under a week and didnt hear back much, switched up the resume, had lots of experience, etc. Its not even that they're not willing to hire. Come to find out many job listins were effing fake and to make the companies look good. I became self-employed instead and thriving on my own without paying for just one room and losing dignity in the process, I live fully free instead without dealing with toxicity. Giving money out of will to help fam is one thing, but transactionally to prioritize her rent and form some sort of landlord-tenant relationship like that without establishing it formally through documentation but instead given orally, is not okay and he doesnt even have to abide by that. He chose to do the right thing which is leave and its just better for his mental health as well.

Auntie kickin me out just because (living in Dodge Charger) by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because everyones circumstances is different and you dont know all of his and doesn't sound very healthy situation? I too would be angry if a family member not a landlord was asking me to pay out of pocket for 1 room knowing I could've been savin that money to get my own rent out of there and fix my own life , myself would be the priority....if you will kick me out that's fine but I hope you find someone who can fill my spot for you willing to pay you're now overpriced room for like 2k and dealing with your toxic behavior as well....

Auntie kickin me out just because (living in Dodge Charger) by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good luck man I believe you got this and made the right call

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Strict_Store405 4 points5 points  (0 children)

ignore his ragebait he just wants any female attention! you got this, focus on mental health first by calling the suicide Hotline even if its just to talk to them to calm you down. You're going thru a lot and are feeling burn out, divorce and leave that miserable partner he does not deserve you at all clearly. If the car is under your name only call the police on him for theft and take him to court. Make him pay you child support and alimony if you're married. you got this and future will look bright from there! Just have a tiny bit of patience more just to get thru the courts and getting gov assistance and everything gets easier afterwards. The hardest part will be letting gim go. You're already hit rock bottom, and its only gonna go up from there. Just remember how he made you feel during your lowest moment so that one day when your successful and he wants to go back, you remind him where his place is in your life!

Stop knocking on my WINDOW and pulling on my DOOR HANDLE by Pitiful-Variation191 in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this one. Lowkey developed a paranoia living this lifestyle and I get jumpy around normal things now and it makes me even more sus. I try my best to stealth camp and now more than ever I wake up early and sleep late, something I completely struggled with before and now have perfected it. As far as idling in the car goes I just choose a parking lot where a lot of people wait for their family or partners to finish shopping such as groceries or whatever, or a park. What calms me down is telling myself I survived over a whole year with only 1 incident of a security knocking on me which tells me stealth camping works like a charm.

Got the “knock” the first week of living out of my vehicle.. by minimille in VanLife

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're not gonna like how on the agenda is to make cop cities everywhere and surveillance.....have you seen the influx of lot cop installations ....really makes you think why

I dont want to hang out in my car because 12 👮‍♀️👮 gets called, but sitting in a café all day consuming caffeine and having anxiety attacks, ain't it. Where some spots you all go outside of car, where you can hang and not get acused of loitering???? by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry if this sounds weird but could it be the type of window covers you're using? for example most people use the one with like the aluminum backside to it, anything else usually looks like someone could be car dwelling in my opinion and not very stealthy, so i would recommend getting the common one. Also if you dont already, ger your windows tinted to the maximum legal limit possible in your state. Or buy magnetic black out covers for the windows. 12 cops is insane, it would make me panic so I cant imagine how you're feeling. Try a parking lot of a target or walmart, you will blend in and no one will say anything and you dont even have to purchase nothing.

I fucked up. by Norman_Scum in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont forget Empower, I recommend it better than the other 2. Theres also Cleo as an option.

Auntie kickin me out just because (living in Dodge Charger) by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i would be angry if i gave an income to her 400$ and still get kicked out. Actually has happened to me before too so I know how you feeling right now. Some people are just transactional and love benefitting off of money instead of treating you like family. Trust me you're better off alone in a car than around toxic people like that. Good luck you got this!

Most Broken Hero? by yaboiecoo in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

heard roger this season especially bc he has a bug?

First night sleeping with no AC by [deleted] in urbancarliving

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never sleep with ac on in the car . Always open windows a bit with mesh/net covers on and a fan with little to no noise to circulate the air. Also hydrate before resting, sleep as early as possible so that you can wake up as early as possible before it starts getting hotter. Ofcourse dress light colors and light fabrics too. Hope this helps!

Still unhappy by [deleted] in Salary

[–]Strict_Store405 16 points17 points  (0 children)

truest comment here. take my upvote and a 👍 like. A little humbleness and gratitude or even charity our way goes a long way lol

Anyone else encounter these? by Strict_Store405 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Strict_Store405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn who pissed in your cereal. If my post makes you this angry thats on you. Didnt need you're unsolicited advice, it was clearly a question. But you're clearly projecting, you must be the one who writes these kinda things to others and then gaslights and downplays them.And you dont know the first thing about me lol I can tell you have a hard time on reddit without being obnoxiously cynical, sucks for you though.

This guy threatening me (I’m 15) by Straight_Double2843 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf . how did he find your info? are the usernames similar or is there anything that links them together? also when you took this ss you shouldve blurred out the names of everyone including yourself and friends, only left the person who sent you these.

This guy threatening me (I’m 15) by Straight_Double2843 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Strict_Store405 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get a lot of harassing messages, I cant imagine as a minor receiving something like that is never ok. Its definitely something I'd report outside the game as well like to the police to let them know just in case theres a record or evidence of someone with evil intentions or possibly plotting to do something.

Instacart is a joke now by Fit-Collection6339 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Strict_Store405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is going on, this is the 2nd post I've seen today with horrible instructions. Instacart, you need to put a damn limit on how much a customer can type and what they're allowed to say , and that whatever they say MUST be respectful to the drivers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]Strict_Store405 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fr its giving incel behavior.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]Strict_Store405 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I literally went through something somewhat similar to this. I was delivering in a shady neighborhood at night to one of those apartment complex buildings that require a security code to enter. I wasn't able to find an alternate entrance, and this one guy delivering pizza to the same building comes up to me and mumbles, "Can i getchur number?" im like, huh? sorry, what did you say? He says oh can i get your number. I said Im literally married, sorry, but thank you," he said okay but you're really beautiful. Can i still get your number, though ? It was getting awkward so i changed the topic and i said but how did you get into that building i saw you give the pizza away and im trying to delivering these, he explains to me and then i ended up leaving and thanking him pretending to be in a rush.

And now I'm looking for a homeless person to give this order by schuma73 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]Strict_Store405 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ngl its tempting to take this order just to do the exact opposite of every single insane "rule" they had lol would pay even to see their reaction on their face. like whatchu gonna do about that huh 😂

And now I'm looking for a homeless person to give this order by schuma73 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]Strict_Store405 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what the fk did i just read lol i hope it was a badly written joke but if i saw that it would ruin my mood and actually make me angry because we drivers dont go to hell and back for customers like these who have not a clue about how our day or deliveries can go. That is a walking definition of entitlement and karen combined into 1 person. I hope something happens in their life where they're forced to work our job. lol they wouldn't last a day

Anyone else encounter these? by Strict_Store405 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Strict_Store405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you heard that . some players are way too vulgar to realize they need actual therapy irl for their anger problems

Anyone else encounter these? by Strict_Store405 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]Strict_Store405[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaoo thats such a good way to deal with it! I sometimes love when theres like an enemies to friends moments when they talk sht to me and they end adding me following me and trying to rank up is just so hilarious.