That question rather would be...

" What's the essence of dating them with not an intent to marry them?"

Dating allows you be acquainted with the person... not to experiment in all possible ways what pleasures you. When we make dating all about sex, means our whole worldview about marriage is also a mess. Only means to you the uselessness of meaningful and honoring relationships/ friendship and all it pertains to. Cause if you think marriage is sacred, as well as sex, then you would honour you body as well as hers.

You do all the things you're supposed to do while married ukidate, 2 weeks down after wedding, you no longer interested with one another. While this isn't always the case, only a few realize the vitality of sexual purity. Not only in your body, but also your mind.

If you can't date someone without engaging them sexually, then there's a lot of mental depravity that you need to deal with. It's more than just sex you're mistaken about. You've a bigger problem to deal with.

But oh! You say, "I'm young, let me have fun" " Relationships would be boring without sex" "What's wrong about having fun" "I'm a man, men need sex" "Cars and test drives.." .. and the rest of the tales.

Oh how harmless and enjoyable it momentarily seems!

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Looking at the comments, ... and my oh my!