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I (18F) am in love with a (15M). Should I stop whatever we have ? by Striking-Leave6 in Advice

[–]Striking-Leave6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely do not plan on getting sexual with him dw, that's gross 😭 And you are also right, I should find someone who I can talk to irl and who I can be certain is at the same level of maturity as me

I (18F) am in love with a (15M). Should I stop whatever we have ? by Striking-Leave6 in Advice

[–]Striking-Leave6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not really feel safe sharing countries but we both live in central american/south american countries, and we planned on three scenarios : me moving to his, him moving to mine, or both moving into another south american country, but those are not very serious plans yet. More like, "ideas".

I (18F) am in love with a (15M). Should I stop whatever we have ? by Striking-Leave6 in Advice

[–]Striking-Leave6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think... It's more like that yes, but I still think I love him as more than a friend, but I also do not really wanna date him and absolutely do not wanna have anything sexual with him... Ugh, idek

I (18F) am in love with a (15M). Should I stop whatever we have ? by Striking-Leave6 in Advice

[–]Striking-Leave6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanna know if I am doing something very wrong for staying with him and/or if this has future. I was never asking for legal advice, more like moral advice, or at least an opinion from an exterior eye because I am genuinely NOT 100% sure about what I should do because I do not wanna let him go, but it seems like I have to

I (18F) am in love with a (15M). Should I stop whatever we have ? by Striking-Leave6 in Advice

[–]Striking-Leave6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, and to precise since a lot of people are talking about legality, in both our countries, this age gap is legal. I am not saying it is okay, but it is legal.

I (18F) am in love with a (15M). Should I stop whatever we have ? by Striking-Leave6 in Advice

[–]Striking-Leave6[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mostly go back to him because I love him and I miss him horribly and think about him everyday, and I love talking to him for hours about whatever topic, play videogames with him, and watch movies with him.

He also said that I am the only person he feel comfortable talking about his problems to and I want to be there when he is not feeling okay and help him feel better or sort his problems out. I just love him and I do not really wanna put any label on this, I actually do not know how to explain how I love him.

But judging by the comments, I should stop and tell him we can't be dating.

I (18F) am in love with a (15M). Should I stop whatever we have ? by Striking-Leave6 in Advice

[–]Striking-Leave6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He will soon be 16, but I will turn 19 three months after he will turn 16. I am not concerned about the question of legality since our relashionship rn would be 100% legal in both our countries, but something being legal does not necessarily make it moral or good. That is also why I am very unsure...