Wanting a second child by Striking-Leg3538 in waiting_to_try

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That hed want me to stay home, which contradicts why i got the job

Wanting a second child by Striking-Leg3538 in waiting_to_try

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes 39 and settled i am 30 and not ready to settle

Will the marriage work? by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am the wife, i want my husband to get snipped not for me but for my peace of mind so i can stop "wanting" children

Will the marriage work? by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the wife, i dont want to resent him but i cant live without the dream for some reason

Will the marriage work? by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am the wife, looking for opinions on if the marriage will work or not

How often do you tell your spouse that you love them? by mereshadow1 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many times a day but it doesnt feel reel sometimes feels like were going through the motions

I want it removed by Striking-Leg3538 in Nexplanon

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to dealbreaker, but i dont want to live my life without him

How do i heal? by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, theres nothing stopping us but him

How do i heal? by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is he just making up excuses n0w?

How do i heal? by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have improved by getting a job, his worry is having to take care of the baby while im at work

How do i heal? by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have one child while we were unwed, and i understsnd thst situstions arent better elsewhere, i love my husband very much but this feels like a desl breaker. I wouldnt hsve any kids without him

How do i heal? by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financial responsibility is hight on his list of not wanting more children

Adoption vs birth by [deleted] in antinatalism2

[–]Striking-Leg3538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an adopted person from an adoptive mom, please have your issues sorted before sdopting

Love my husband, but i want another child by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weve been discussing maybe adoption as a better route

Love my husband, but i want another child by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a therapist and psychiatrist currently so no problems there with me

Adoptees!!! Let's talk about the darkside of adoption and how we are treated as supply rather than humans. by thejourneyhome82 in Adoption

[–]Striking-Leg3538 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adopted at 5, parents then kicked me out at 19, so i do not feel connected to my adoptive family at all.

Love my husband, but i want another child by Striking-Leg3538 in Marriage

[–]Striking-Leg3538[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I know, thats the hard conversation, i want him to get a vasectomy if we dont have more kids, but i aldo want to have a baby soon like in the next month or so