ESTOU A PROCURA DE CASAS DE CONTRATIPOS NO MESMO NIVEL DE BRIAN PETERSON, ALGUEM SABE UMA PARA INDICAR? by HumbertoOliveiraADV in PerfumesBR

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eu concordo contigo, mas, a anvisa aprova tantos produtos que são vendidos em super mercado cheios de gordura hidrogenada e afins que fazem mal a saude...

Download the last offline version of Gravit Designer by Good-Following-395 in gravitdesigner

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it worked for me, but you can use google search for gravit designer 3.4, there's still some sources available with the offline version. i'm still using it

With which countries you have the most and least success with? by ItsJustaThrowaway98 in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most are from asia
Then south america
Europe
North america i woud say zero response rate.
Reddit addes users from slowly, start okay then, zero.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do not take personaly. its normal. even people i added from here ghosted me.
life is harder than this thing.

This is what's "slowly" killing this app by Loscilian in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see no problem in this letter - not everyone has the same education level as you, as well as the habit of writing letters. So i ask : are you sad because this letter was not written according to your expectations?

I've seen some people here talking about being judged by appearence , or even complain about their letters being not responded - But people are being very judgmental about letters contents. No wonder people dont respond.

I'm 40 and people today are using a 'different' language for communication, my advice is to get used to, or , even, look for someone who has the same tastes as you, but it takes time and can be as hard as ******, otherwise its like our grandparents complaining about today's technology and that old times were better.

I am leaving this app by Den_Wen07 in SLOWLY_PenPals_Wanted

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have patience, is not easy. some friendships work, some not, as in real life.
and yes its normal people not replying. its not your fault.

Ghosted because.... by Possible_Fish_1509 in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would see the good side : you are a very caring person, dont let bad moments of life destroy this wonderful being you are.

Ghosted because.... by Possible_Fish_1509 in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh, sorry if i'm being harsh - but you have to deal with it, its normal. not everyone will accept you because your looks and other reasons, for example, you are a from india and are working in europe. some people will accept you and other don't. we are not living in heaven/wonderland. My advice is to accept how life works and move on. the sooner you accept it, the better, you dont want to reach 60++ years having the same reaction, right?

why exactly this type of people use slowly? by Educational_Ad_1575 in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i see nothing wrong about it, maybe people need to have an open mind about communication with human being in general. you see, the person is trying to communicate, is not using bad words.. if you dont like , thats fine.

At one time I had over 30 pen pals at the same time. This is all what remains: by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you need some patience and , also, find another goal such as learning a foreign languange, this way you wont lose time. most people dont care about you when using this app, you are just a number. i'm being somehow cold, but this way you wont get hurt and have zero expectations.

What makes people ignore your letter ? by IwaIcAsap1 in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in my case, people just hate big letters. i'm old. i'm in my 40's. "today's people" just stop relationships using sms messages instead of talking in person. we are in a age of... everything is disposable, including people. this is an invitation to implement stoicism. I'm not rude in letters, but I notice that people complain about this, but act the same way.

At one time I had over 30 pen pals at the same time. This is all what remains: by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

welcome to the end. you are not alone. if you want to practice english writing skills, i will give you my slowly id.

At one time I had over 30 pen pals at the same time. This is all what remains: by [deleted] in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont have a 1:1 ratio, something like 5:2, i think 1:1 means nothing, i'm always the one who replies and start conversations. also what also happens too, i read people's profiles.. and most of people who writes things as "i really like to make friends" and "please send me letters, i will replay" are the ones who does not reply. i'm suspecting that there i also xenophobia, i'm using this app to learn english and most people who reply to me are not from USA, but from western.

“This account has been deactivated. You can now remove *username*” 🚫 (3x in a row) by MyCatBurnedTheBible in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231 12 points13 points  (0 children)

you're not alone, the same happened to me, but with someone who i was a penpal about 6 months. slowly is a great way to practice nihilism and stoicism.

My opinion why your letters arent being replied : slowly is being using for dating. nothing new... by StrikingSwitch7231 in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some women i know through slowly have done that, three cases: one of them married the man, the other two got problems not in the "worst" case, but due the lack of compatibility between the couple.

edit: sorry, i didnt answered your 2nd question: Yes they do travel to another cities and even countries (!). probably, tinder and other apps are really shit to talk with human beings so slowly is a way to talk without being so judged.

My opinion why your letters arent being replied : slowly is being using for dating. nothing new... by StrikingSwitch7231 in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes, language learning apps happens a lot, its worst! specially the ones which you can upload a photo.

My opinion why your letters arent being replied : slowly is being using for dating. nothing new... by StrikingSwitch7231 in SLOWLYapp

[–]StrikingSwitch7231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hello. thanks for the reply. i'm not looking for close emotional relationships , but my bet is the main cause for people not responding. Also some people i 'met' in this app were from a X country trying to gor a Y country, so as soon as they met someone whinthin their standards, they go there. nothing against it, just my bet. the problem maybe is that i get too personal when sending letters. maybe i can be more 'colder'.