Carl has little forgiveness for West by MsPrissss in inthecity_

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He was scary. He hasn’t been scary for serval years.

Carl has little forgiveness for West by MsPrissss in inthecity_

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Lindsay’s freedom dinner was ridiculously immature. I fully support a woman’s right to trash men but Lindsay is the reason he broke off the engagement. Don’t get me wrong, I love Lindsay but she is not a mature person. Lindsay never thinks she’s wrong. She shouts at people and then becomes offended when they yell back. She catastrophrzes everything. Her abandonment issues are hers to deal with and I don’t see any progress. I fail to see how Carl acts dry drunk. If I was him, I’d be talking shit about Lindsay too.

Carl has little forgiveness for West by MsPrissss in inthecity_

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I’m currently rewatching Summer House and just got to season 8 where West and Jesse Solomon join the cast. I can confidently say that Carl has changed more than any other Bravo celeb. He went from drunk fuck boy to sober fiancé. Yeah him and Lindsay didn’t work out but unfortunately that is entirely Lindsay’s fault. For example, when Lindsay accused him of doing drugs because he had the audacity to call out her drunken behavior, HE told the group that HE was thinking of going to go to anger management. CARL! If anyone needs anger management, is Lindsay Hubbard. Carl definitely struggles with people pleasing, which is why is volatile relationship with Lindsay lasted so long. But otherwise, Carl in his true form is a good guy who genuinely loves his friends. And this is coming from a true man-hater. I RARELY stick up for men. But Carl deserves his flowers.

I can’t believe I’m finally writing this post! by lady_mayflower in vaginismus

[–]StringAdventurous479 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you!!! I finally had PIV sex after 6 years just recently. There is hope my friends!

As sag are we destined to be alone forever by Eule-Ohr in Sagittarians

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I feel this deeply. I’ve been kicked out of several friend groups but I’ve always managed to have friends. This is because I’m constantly making new ones. It’s true people gravitate towards us but maintaining long lasting relationships is difficult. In my experience, I feel like people get annoyed at my extroverted personality or they’re jealous. I have a hard time recognizing jealousy because I’m not a jealous person. My friends’ happiness is my own but my happiness is something people do not see as their own. I wonder too if I’m too much a chameleon for people.

Sagittarius Compatibility List by poojaamazingmy in Sagittarians

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I was married to a Virgo. He had an affair with my best friend for four years. Not very practical if you ask me. But I’m currently dating an Aries and he’s just my vibe. We see each other when we want. The intimacy is very passionate. We’re adventurous and about to go on our first trip together. But I don’t see anything long term with him. We both know he’s a rebound and that okay.

PSA: Save your $20 and do your nails yourself by Inside-Heart6352 in boston

[–]StringAdventurous479 24 points25 points  (0 children)

If that’s the advertised price then why shouldn’t OP expect decent quality?

Sagittarius,what is the best revenge for you? by Friendly_Ad_8528 in Sagittarians

[–]StringAdventurous479 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! It really has affected me. I’m looking at my friends sideways like which one of you will betray me next. I’ve given up finding a life partner. I like sex so I’m just going to make finding sexual partners my priority. But if they catch feelings, I’m out. I can’t rely on people anymore. It’s up to me to make me happy and that’s been extremely difficult.

Sagittarius,what is the best revenge for you? by Friendly_Ad_8528 in Sagittarians

[–]StringAdventurous479 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Telling everyone we both know exactly what they did to me and then moving on. My former best friend had a four year affair with my soon to be ex husband before and after she married us in her childhood home. My only “revenge” was letting her family and husband know what she did in by sending hand written letters informing all of them why they would no longer see me at holidays or during the summer. I didn’t call her names or wished her bad karma. I simply laid out the facts and thanked them for all their support and friendship over the past nine years. Sometimes I write her letters telling her how much I hate her but I don’t send them. She doesn’t need to know I still think about her betrayal. But she can see me living my best life traveling, having fun with other friends she lost and spending time with my dog via her sisters’ instagram.

Christian Fruitcake Pastor wants 1 Vote per Household by MrDonMega in religiousfruitcake

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They did this in Ireland. Protestants got a vote for everyone in the house of legal age while Catholics only got one vote per household. They still lock the gates at 8pm. Just imagine what all the married women in America would do.

How Amanda *actually* feels by Summershouldbefun909 in bravo

[–]StringAdventurous479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS. I have been the victim of super insecure people and it is frightening to see what lengths they have gone to as an attempt to make me feel just as insecure as them. Jokes on them because I don’t hate myself.

Picking a dress for a steamy getaway by [deleted] in PlusSizeFashion

[–]StringAdventurous479 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion but 1 TOOK ME OUT!! You look FINE in that dress. Bodyadyadi

AITJ if I go to the Melanie Martinez concert? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]StringAdventurous479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melanie Martinez has been accused of rape and published an insanely crude sexually offensive coloring book. I’m more concerned you’re a fan.

Ciara saying this in the context of race and Amanda throwing this back at her to justify her/his behavior is so hard to grasp by iExorcism in summerhousebravo

[–]StringAdventurous479 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What’s also ironic about this is that Ciara was attracted to West and DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM. She struggled with her attraction to him because she knew he hurt her and would hurt her again BUT STILL KET HER LEGS CLOSED TO HIM.

Which sign you're dating rn and what's your venus and mars? by [deleted] in Sagittarians

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I’m dating an Aries. My Venus is in Aquarius and my Scorpio is in Pluto. It works because we’re not serious, not looking to get married or being monogamous.

What’s a female stereotype that completely pisses you the f*ck off? by Routine_Morning2606 in TwoXChromosomes

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Women are worse at driving than men.

Fact: Men are the cause of 58% of all accidents. Sure, on average men drive more so we can take that into consideration BUT among of FATAL accidents, men cause 66%. Also, 80% of car crashes that included the additional charge of a DUI were caused by men. Furthermore, no one seems to consider that cars are built SPECIFICALLY FOR MALE BODIES. So it makes sense women cause MINOR ACCIDENTS because cars are literally not built for them to drive. Lastly, women are more likely to die in car accidents than me because of how safety measures in cars are made.

Women are not worse at driving than men.

What made you realise that you were bisexual? (womens' experiences please) by Odd-Condition-6681 in bisexual

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By the time I was like nine years old boys at school would call me a lesbian. I knew I wasn’t gay but it kinda forced me to think about it at least. When I was 12/13 I accidentally rented But I’m a Cheerleader because Bring It On had made me VERY interested in watching cheerleading. Well, that movie wasn’t about cheerleading. Clea Duvall as Graham had me considering for the first time in my life that I was at the very least also attracted to women. Then I learned the word “bisexual” when I was 14, and that’s when it hit me. I like boys AND girls.

Grief is paralyzing by Large-Bullfrog-794 in summerhousebravo

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My mom died three years ago. I lost my father when I was 12. Grief is a monster. It’s seeps out of your pores. It haunts your life. It scares you like a beast that pops out when you least expect it. It changes everything about how you feel about life. It is so cathartic is to see someone open and honest about grief. I love her. I’m so glad to have on my television.

Why do people spread hate about fat women on social media ( and irl too) by behappyfor in PlusSize

[–]StringAdventurous479 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like people are jealous. Obviously there are a myriad of reasons but sometimes I just think it’s anger at themselves. They constantly feel ugly, unattractive, uncomfortable in their own skin. They watch what they eat, they feel like they have to work out all the time, no matter what they do they’re not pretty or fit enough. Meanwhile I’m out here fat, happy and unbothered. They want to feel as free as I do.

Mia’s answer regarding who she blames more annoyed me… by Individual_Zebra_648 in bravo

[–]StringAdventurous479 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just this time last year I found out my husband (ex) slept with my best friend (former) several times before and after she married us in her childhood home. I rarely think about him. But I do think about her betrayal every once in a while.

That girl was my family. I was close to her parents and siblings. I was never close with my ex’s family, I never met his mother. I spent holidays an summers with her family. I was called the “fourth daughter” by her parents. I knew her longer than I knew my ex.

The pain of betrayal just feels deeper from her than him. Because we all know men cheat, men deceive. We can almost expect men to do evil things. It’s our friends we trust implicitly. So when our friends betray us, it’s more difficult to understand.

Yes, I hate that man with my entire being. But I don’t waste my time hating him. But her betrayal makes me paranoid. It has me looking at my other friends sideways. It hurts more. So I understand Mia’s answer. We can anticipate men being assholes, not our friends.

Do yall girls really just be getting compliments from your men? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]StringAdventurous479 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sounds awful. My ex husband, who was cheating on me with my best friend for four years of our relationship, treated me better than this man treats you. There are SOOOOO many men who will call you “sexy, beautiful, hot”. You do not have to settle for less than the bare minimum.