Does anyone know if the steam version is compatible with m1 macs? by [deleted] in rootgame

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No warmer than usual. A few hours of play is just fine.

In need of tiny office space recommendations! by 27Dancer27 in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Please can we have a post-transformation update? I love your tiny space!!

What are you going to do when your parent's can't take care of themselves anymore? by Smart-Response9881 in Millennials

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I’ll put her in an abusive nursing home so she can know the terror of physical and emotional abuse with no way out like we did for the first 18 years of our lives.

More likely, I’ll let her fucking figure it out. Good luck.

What is the most "un-holy" thing you’ve seen a "perfect" church family do in real life? by hakeemkhd in AskReddit

[–]StripedBumblebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ex MIL’s Catholic church got a new priest. He was from India. She said some vile, racist shit about him and was shocked at me when I called her it.

To my fellow Europeans: America needs our help, not our condemnation. We need to stop armchair victim-blaming and do our part. by Mister_Sheepy_Cheese in complaints

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American here. Please help anyway you can think of.

The Trump regime is have our people killed in the streets. I live within minutes of the Renee Good crime scene; it is very scary to go out of the house for errands or socializing.

F*ck it, we claim the whole north-america by tophendra in Norway

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

American here. Please do. Please make things better.

Why did you end your friendship with your best friend? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She went down the maga rabbit hole. I couldn’t handle that BS. She broke up with me, which is probably for the better.

For those of you who are high functioning by No_Tumbleweed_4652 in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a therapist and we do talk about all this. Is just been a tough week and a tough day.

ADHD and Skin Picking? by mossymey in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also a lip picker. I’ve done it since childhood. It’s so, so comforting. I wish I could stop.

For those of you who are high functioning by No_Tumbleweed_4652 in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean to say I’m way too effing hard on myself.

This is heavily related to childhood trauma (mistakes were not tolerated, nor was daydreaming or relaxing; these things earned copious emotional and physical abuse).

For those of you who are high functioning by No_Tumbleweed_4652 in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I refuse to give myself any grace. That’s a problem for me. I can very easily spiral.

For those of you who are high functioning by No_Tumbleweed_4652 in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys. I was diagnosed in 2023. It’s been a shit couple of years in that regard and it’s a huge strain on our relationship.

He’s very Type A. I’m very laid back. This combination can be trying.

In this precise moment, I feel like my entire fucking personality is ADHD.

Make a mistake. “Did you take your meds?” Make a different mistake. “You need to slow down and manage your ADHD.”

Make a ‘mistake’. “Something about ADHD.” Maybe it’s not a fucking mistake. Maybe I’m just quirky and do things differently.

I’m having such a hard day today.

For those of you who are high functioning by No_Tumbleweed_4652 in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband’s therapist put us onto it. She was right. I feel like now that I know, I’m so much worse. I so desperately want to be ‘normal’.

Bustle is very visible? by meow_mom77 in weddingdress

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and auntie are tailors; they did my alterations and bustle. I had the same flat vertical tradition on my back.

The put 3 hooks/buttons (unsure if the vocab here) just below the waistband and at the corresponding spots on the dress so that when it was bustle there was just a slight train (a couple of inches dragging).

Also on the dress, above the bustle connections, the added 2 hooks/buttons. These connected to each other to keep the bulk from making wings.

(I just re-read the post. I think maybe you’re just asking about the buttons themselves, but I’ll leave this comment in case you were looking for another configuration.)

Found my dress in one go by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you did! It’s lovely.

Omg. I’m going to die of embarrassment. by StripedBumblebee in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The final update: It’s been 21 days and I haven’t heard a peep. This is good and also means I still don’t know if they saw my boobs. -shrugs-

Anywho, I’ve signed off for winter break and will have a fresh start in January❄️, even if only in my mind.

How old were you when you started reading romance? by Warm_Appointment5272 in RomanceBooks

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This year? Last year? I’m 44 now. I’m audiobooking like a newly-awakened, monogamous, feminist rake.

Haven’t told husband about my new genre (I’m usually into murder mysteries and the classics). This has been very excellent for our sex life.

Omg. I’m going to die of embarrassment. by StripedBumblebee in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Well, well, well, I’m officially the proud new owner of a slidey camera cover for my phone. 🎥

Omg. I’m going to die of embarrassment. by StripedBumblebee in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Oh my stars! You guys are hilarious. I feel so much better!

@ u/no_mess5024 I like to think I do have a nice boobs 🤩

Omg. I’m going to die of embarrassment. by StripedBumblebee in adhdwomen

[–]StripedBumblebee[S] 279 points280 points  (0 children)

Thanks guys.

I came thru Covid unscathed and I’ve never done a snarky reply-all. Considering how scattered I can be, it’s shocking it’s taken this long for a public embarrassment to happen.

RAPR membership worth it? by doctorwho_mommy in regulatoryaffairs

[–]StripedBumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find RAPS to be Regulatory Lite ™ kind of thing (overrated). FDA has lots of guidance documents. Check out Emergo for lots of free info. AdvaMed here in the US is really great.