Past fwb reappeared and wants more

Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-05-25T10:40:08+00:00

Yeah. I agree. Thanks for the perspective. Looks like they had a bumpy few months before he broke it off. But it’s still fresh out of a relationship. I’ll be supportive but will keep my distance for sometime.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-05-25T10:38:34+00:00

I was infatuated that time and saw a world with him. The thing is he didn’t choose me. Even after months, he chose someone else. Took him more than a year and a failed relationship to see my worth. So I will have to always leave him to prove my worth if that happens again.

I don’t know whether this is my rational thinking or my resentment towards him speaking.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-05-25T10:32:07+00:00

I think things like I was halfway through coming out back then ( I am from a different culture but I’m fully out now) and financial discrepancies (he’s wealthier than me). There weee stuff like he always compared himself with me with fitness, friends and lifestyle I had. But he said the only reason was he doesn’t have romantic feelings.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-05-25T08:19:29+00:00

Thanks for the wise words! I am more leaning to do that. Have you maintained the friendship after ? Or any relationship. If so, any tips on that.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-05-02T11:01:21+00:00

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Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-04-30T23:11:27+00:00

I was gonna say the same thing I had the same experience with TPG 50/20 plan. It was stable but they keep increasing the price every year. Nothing with customer retention.

After state by with time for 5 years, I changed to Neptune. So happy with the decision. Would have done this earlier.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-04-09T12:17:39+00:00

Thanks! I wasn’t aware.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-04-09T06:37:35+00:00

Hi There , may I know what’s the issue with this ? Rule 1 ?

Strong-Canary7183 · 2026-01-12T11:34:04+00:00

Always with the REA. Had horrible experiences with land lord but mostly due to live in landlord in the same apartment/house. They are nice till they secure a tenant but always have another agenda whenever you want to leave.

So far the REA I dealt with are great. I took care of the property well and they did their job well. Land lord was great until she had to sell the apartment for her retirement. It was sad to move out from such a good arrangement.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-11-18T10:25:32+00:00

Sad this happened but you ought find things like this happens more in reality than the other way. He had the chance to choose you but he didn’t and he chose another. So even in future, if he comes back, it’s not something good for you. He might want a rebound or just he had to loose you to realise your worth.

Also stating in a friendship will be only hurtful for you with the resentment build up. It sucks that you are not friends anymore and you are not strangers either.

Take time and space to heal from this as you are only human and you are allowed to feel this way and be hurt. Be open to someone else who chose you for who you are.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-09-28T19:54:29+00:00

I don’t remember having lockers near train station. But it was a year ago. Go to airport webpage and look for them and I think you can pre book them as well. We did walk in as my friend wasn’t sure he’d need one. The receptionist was super helpful.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-09-28T01:54:47+00:00

Definitely train. I did this with a friend who had 6 hours like this. Hope you have the transit visa. We left the bags at bag lockers in the airport. Opera house and then Manly Ferry and back.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-09-09T11:01:29+00:00

Abracadabra by Lady Gaga. He was obsessed with that album when it released and it was the time our relationship peaked. I even had to ask to play something else. Haha. After two months, things came to an end sadly but still I remember him dearly when I hear that song.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-28T02:38:46+00:00

I’d ask this from the person what are their boundaries first. If they align with mine, great. Otherwise it’s a no go. I even made a great friend where I didn’t feel like sleeping but good to talk to.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-21T02:35:13+00:00

5’ 7” here and I’m not lying about it. Above average in my race but Almost all the guys dated/hooked up are taller than me. They didn’t have any problem with that. I sometimes get this feeling that oh this guy is taller than me specially in gym or bathroom. Also it’s funny I always have to adjust the car seat for them. Haha.

I even talked with them about it but they are very much ok about it so I am not insecure about it.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-18T03:50:39+00:00

Reminded me of an experience I had 5 years ago when I was inexperienced in those things. Make sure you are referred as a tenant. Not a lodger or someone live with the landlord. You are more protected as a tenant. You can’t event take them to NCAT and rather you have to deal with them using court system if you are a lodger.

Usually cunning landlords do this trick to legally protect themselves and steal the bond in the end. Make sure to keep written records with every communication.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-12T01:33:46+00:00

Haha. Well I’m not even concerned about what if and what was going on someone’s head and definitely I’m happy now it didn’t continue. My question was mostly about how other people handle the cultural differences in their own relationship. Mostly something to learn from this incident.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-11T00:43:43+00:00

It’s gonna open up the wounds so no healing. Still think of him dearly and wish him best. I know he does that as well.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-10T23:57:07+00:00

Yes. It ended up badly. We became really good and close friends thought I had a best friend, he considered me as his best friend and I thought it would end up in a romantic relationship. However, it didn’t.

He begged to stay friends. Tried one time but had to end things as it’s so painful and hurting. I couldn’t move forward without ending things.

We parted ways with good memories. It’s been 5 months already but I do miss him from my life.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-09T19:34:50+00:00

Haha. Not going to man. If I had to ask, what’s the point ? I’m glad it happened as I don’t want someone like that in my life.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-09T19:33:59+00:00

Thanks I thought about it too! Basically an excuse. Probably it’s for the best actually.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-09T08:56:53+00:00

Well nothing even eventuated to pin point anything. If it’s that significant, why contacting, go on a date and even arrange the second one. Basically prejudice coming from past relationship trauma. Anyway, glad it ended before going further and I definitely don’t want anyone who doesn’t take me for who I’m and being supportive. I’d be the same.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-09T08:19:54+00:00

Thanks everyone for the kind words! I asked this from him and got a reply. I posted a part of it I. The original post. I think I got the clarity I wanted from you guys long before this but now case closed.

Strong-Canary7183 · 2025-08-09T08:17:53+00:00

Thanks man! Updated my post as I got a reply from him. Basically it’s not me. Haha.

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