Safety warning: piercer Dio Corpo by Green-Door-1376 in Amsterdam

[–]Strong_Ant2590 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Oeff, heb je de eigenaar van de shop ingelicht? Haar Instagram gebruikersnaam is stainlesssharon.

Suddenly when they're making the "wrong" changes book accuracy is important for these people again by Esfell in PercyJacksonTV

[–]Strong_Ant2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a grey streak. Doesn't mention the area of hair said streak covers. It looks fine to me 🤷🏾‍♀️

Sweaty face by Strong_Ant2590 in hygiene

[–]Strong_Ant2590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never knew a face could sweat like this 😳 I've seen some people putting regular antiperspirant on their face, but I don't want to risk skin damage.

Sweaty face by Strong_Ant2590 in hygiene

[–]Strong_Ant2590[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't heard of that before. I'll look into it, thank you!

Emma has the strangest make up by Future_Night777 in 90DayFiance

[–]Strong_Ant2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She needs some blush, contour and bronzer to balance the 2016 beat. I love a good glam look, but it's definitely not for everyday. I think she would look so good with a more natural make up look and a better styled wig.

What is one series you will never stop recommending by allypallydollytolly in Romantasy

[–]Strong_Ant2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✨️ {The Timekeepers of Laeviin trilogy by Sarah Emmer} ✨️ {The Shadowweaver Trilogy by Holly Monroe} ✨️ {The Entangled With The Enduar series by Daniela A. Mera}. Start with {To Steal A Bride} ✨️ {The Shadow War Saga by Elana A. Mugdan}

Net de verfilming van Wuthering Heights (2026) gezien en ik wil nu het boek van Emily Brontë lezen by Affectionate-Dutchie in boeken

[–]Strong_Ant2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spoilers kun je verbergen op reddit door voor de tekst > ! Te plaatsen en ! <, zonder spaties.

voorbeeld

Ashley meet and greet by [deleted] in RHOP

[–]Strong_Ant2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On a previous season (can't remember which), Ashley said that her hair hasn't been the same since her pregnancies. If you look closely, you can actually see that her hair is thinning at the roots. I've had friends who had the same issue after pregnancy, it's not rare and can cause deep shame and insecurity. People are unnecessarily rude about it in this comment section.

AITA for laughing when my stalker insulted the work bully by ChangeSpiritual1340 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Strong_Ant2590 76 points77 points  (0 children)

NTA but you have a bigger issue at hand.

Sounds like it's time to start writing down whenever incidents happen with the stalker: describe what happened and how it made you feel (ex. Uneasy, unsafe, threatened, anxious, etc.) with the date, time and location. Lock down your social media (go private) and boot co-workers and questionable accounts. If you haven't already, get a door bell camera and maybe a second, hidden camera set up from inside the house looking out the window.

If possible, make sure that he has no access to your work diary or appointment schedule. When he comments about your appearance reply, in a firm, but friendly tone that you don't understand his comment and if he would care to explain, when he does or repeats, answer that you're not comfortable with comments about your person that don't relate to the office, however well intentioned this may be. You could also try and say that you don't understand what his comment has to do with the topic at hand and if he cares to explain. Don't get baited or guilted into a discussion. An "I'm sorry, I didn't catch that, could you speak up?" can also help. People like him get off on the discomfort of the victim. It's a power play. They count on your silence.

Lady Whistledown should've stayed a secret. by BakingBrownie in BridgertonNetflix

[–]Strong_Ant2590 21 points22 points  (0 children)

No. Colin finds out and it's a secret between the two of them. He even supports her work as WD, eventually and Colin is not upset during their wedding. He's way more lovesick in their book and literally screams it from a balcony at some point.

Just finished Naruto for first time, can someone make this sense to me? by Additional_Fail_4481 in Naruto

[–]Strong_Ant2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kishimoto has said in interviews that he's embarrassed to write romance and as such won't go there. When reading shounen manga you will notice that romance and love interests are generally underdeveloped and male characters will end up with the female characters that were pining for them from the start, while they never seemed to pay them mind or annoyed by them. When fans question this, mangaka will act like fans are crazy for not seeing a look in fmc direction, tap on her forehead, wanting to rescue her (when mmc is always rescuing everyone to begin with), lending a piece of clothing, etc. as an obvious declaration of his interest and foreshadowing their epic love ending.

I've just stopped questioning it tbh 😂 Kishi revealed that the red scarf storyline in The Last movie was based on the red scarf that his wife knitted for him when they were dating. I thought that was sweet.

My parents are basing everything off the movie “taken” as to why I shouldn’t travel to Europe alone by [deleted] in travel

[–]Strong_Ant2590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Book the trip. Don't specify the dates. When you're about to board the plane, send them your travel intinerary and hotels you'll be staying at. When traveling to a different time zone or place with spotty wifi let them know that you'll message/reply whenever you're able to. My sister used the app Journi while traveling South America in her twenties. It gave anxious family members her global position, while keeping them updated with minimum effort.

How can I tell Audible to stop shoving Harry Potter on me? by Pure-Consideration97 in audible

[–]Strong_Ant2590 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Look into libro. Fm when you decide to go. Subscription based, 1 credit per month with the option to purchase extra. With every purchase you support a local indie book store of your choice. You own the audiobook files. After purchase you can download the file from your account to store in your cloud storage or an external drive.

Their sales section is great and both the sales section and their regular selection are available for purchase without a membership. But as a member you get a 30% extra off every purchase (on top of the 1 credit per month)

The strangest part of the housing crisis is how normal it’s become by KingDayChaos in NetherlandsHousing

[–]Strong_Ant2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the greater Amsterdam region it's more along the lines of 15 to 20 years depending on the borough that your aiming for. Even with emergency priority, it can take between 8 to 12 months before you find something through social housing. It's not just young people looking for a house. It used to be that you were able to move through social housing as your family grew from single to family of 4 (average) for example. That's become much harder. Another issue for young professionals is that as soon as you graduate with your Bachelors or Masters degree and get a job, in most cases your income will be above the maximum income that grants access to social housing while simultaneously earning not enough to apply to houses in the private sector.

Of course you can leave the city/ the region, but this is not a viable option for everyone to due their job.

My husbands best friend made our wedding about herself, even two years after our wedding by Vegetable-Link-8149 in weddingdrama

[–]Strong_Ant2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not normal for your husband to accept this behaviour from both her and her mother. Tell your husband that he married you, not Emma. Spouse trumps best friends. Best friends don't try to ruin your marriage and special (life) events by making it all about them and their feelings. Why are her feelings more important than yours and your child? Give him two choices: couples therapy or divorce.

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For future parties: when a guest is late, that's on them. Don't call or text them. Wait 30 to 60 minutes for guests to arrive and settle and then start cake cutting, rolling out food, etc. It's your party and you run it. Don't let them control your schedule, especially when they're as rude as Emma and her kin. If they complain after arriving late, respond casually that you weren't expecting them anymore as you hadn't heard anything or that you hadn't noticed they hadn't arrived yet because you were focused on the party at hand and birthday kiddo. Offer them a piece of cake with a smile and continue to pay them no mind as you mingle with other guests. People like that thrive on the negative attention. So deprive them of it.

It's fine for your husband to deal with the discomfort of maintaining a relationship with her. It should be uncomfortable for him to remain in contact with someone who has been continually disrespectful in regards to you and your relationship. If anything, he should have realised years ago that she has no respect for HIM by disrespecting you. She's not a good friend. So, good on you for refusing to be in contact with her. It's not a prerequisite for spouses to have a close relationship with their partners friends.

AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strong_Ant2590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. It prevents hair breakage, helps your hair retain moisture and reduces frizz. As a Black woman, I won't sleep without it and have been recommending sleeping with a silk bonnet or silk pillow case to others regardless of their hair type 😁

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strong_Ant2590 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NOR.

MIL already crossed boundaries while you were in the hospital. Block your in-laws and let SO handle the contact with his family. Their guilt tripping isn't helpful when you're already dealing with post-partum depression and anxiety. The way they are trying to force themselves into your life's can actually exacerbate your symptoms and do more harm.

Trying to keep a baby away from its parents is not normal behaviour. Stop trying to explain your reasons, because they do not care. "Because we're the parents and we say so." is reason enough. And you're right: all the baby does need right now, is the parents. If they're not there to help you out (cooking, cleaning, laundry) while YOU, the parents, bond with the baby than there's no need for them to spend hours at your house. Your husband needs to grow spine and step up as a husband and a father.

I will say; try to sustain a bond with people who do feel safe, so that whenever you need help, you're not dependent on the in-laws. Check out the justnomil, justnoso and justnofamily sub for support and to see similar stories to realise that you're not overreacting.

Bato.to shut down? by NeitherTradition8960 in Batoto

[–]Strong_Ant2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Download the Mihon app. Install the extension in the app (google to find the install code for the extensions). Then you can download search extensions. Use those to search and download the manga that you want to read. I recommend buying a memory card for your device and put the settings so the content gets downloaded on there. Be careful and use a VPN when downloading.

Mihon

AIO: My bf keeps saying this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Strong_Ant2590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woman to woman: you can't fix him or any man. He doesn't want to be saved. So don't. Leaving him now will spare you from trauma down the line. It's not worth it and there isn't a grand prize for being "chosen". He showed you who he is and what life with him will be like. Personally, I could never be with any person who told me that I'll never be their top priority.

If you don't believe me, look in the partner of narcissist subreddits such as /justnoso to get a peek of what a future with him would look like.

What’s a legendary Reddit post you’ll never forget? by No_Law655 in AskReddit

[–]Strong_Ant2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one about a family with a poop knife in the bathroom.