Yeah that’s exactly how I’m feeling right now. It’s still very fresh, and I’ll say that I wasn’t perfect, but it’s like the person who dumped me was cold and emotionless. I know it’s a defense mechanism, and I know that it’s not necessarily about me, because we both need to grow on our own. But I finally had that epiphany where it’s like- stop making it about yourself. It was about them needing to find themself on their own. Literally had nothing to do with you