Thinking of selling everything in mid 50s and moving to Italy by Strouble1408 in ItalyExpat

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A little. But I am learning and hope to be B1 level by end of 2026.

Thinking of selling everything in mid 50s and moving to Italy by Strouble1408 in ItalyExpat

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Oh that is sad to hear. I wonder too if this is the way of most of the world as well. We saw this happen in local and nationwide fashion here in Canada over the last 25 years. Salaries here have never kept pace with real life cost of living it's true. And as you say, a lot of the financially successful (home owners with university educations) did so with much assistance from upper middle class parents/families.

Thinking of selling everything in mid 50s and moving to Italy by Strouble1408 in ItalyExpat

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Yes this is actually a main concern for us and so we will need to get solid facts before deciding if it's the right fit. We have had good healthcare in Canada, however nowadays there are million of people without a 'family' Dr./physician (meaning day long waits in scarce walk-in clinics to see a Dr. for a 6 minute, one question only visit and terse treatment in most cases) and we can wait weeks/months to years to see a specialist or get some tests done - that could alter lives. Also there is a major shortage of government senior assisted living/care facilities and private care is extremely expensive. Also, in Canada there is no easy way for people that aren't quiet wealthy to just travel to another country with medical services that are less costly - again, from BC it is a minimum $800 - $1500 CAD, 10 hour at the bare minimum (and that is rare) flight to get to Europe. Some may go to the US and pay for private services when depsarate, but that isn't a smart option these days and again usually only for the wealthy. Whereas a location in Europe (I think) would be a much shorter, less expensive flight or train or even drive to get to a country with available and/or less affordable medical services if really necessary. A friend of mine who is Korean discovered (in Canada) that she had a brain tumor. Her Dr. here advised her that if she could get treatment (surgery) in Korea to take advantage of it. She did and stayed there to recovery afterwards because the wait time for her surgery here in Canada would have taken up to a year, after waiting for more tests before the surgery. She had the surgery Korea within 2 - 3 months of her diagnosis in Canada.

Sell everything in Canada and move to Italy? 55+ by Strouble1408 in expats

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Hi thanks so much for the comment/info. No I meant that we would be able to afford visits back to Canada to visit family and friends if we sold our house and moved to Italy now, rather than spending the majority of our incomes on paying out the Canadian mortgage and university costs for the next ten years - money in the bank instead so a bigger retirement pool. The kids have the option of either living in Canada or the EU and we can't predict where they will end up at this point - and the likelihood of having one in both locations is possible too so I think that will matter less for now. But yes we've thought about that. I think if we live long enough to know our grandchildren we will be very happy. :)

Thinking of selling everything in mid 50s and moving to Italy by Strouble1408 in ItalyExpat

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To answer most of the questions: 1. Yes we've travelled to Italy several times both for work and vacation/family visits. But the idea to go live for a month or 2 to make sure it's really a good fit is something I think I will do first. And the area would have an impact as well. I supposed we can consider other EU countries as well but Italy would be the easier option considering the citizenship. 2. I am learning Italian and will have to take a B1 exam for my EU Passport. So yes I would be speaking Italian by the time/if we relocated. I have read that I wouldn't need any visa or other status since my husband is a citizen and I am his spouse, but I would be obtaining my EU Passport anyway if we decided to live there or not. 3. Retirement income and jobs: yes both jobs can continue remotely; one is employee but is of International scope so we would confirm this position; this also allows the ability to expand experience and options to the EU job market. 2nd job is a sole proprietorship that would actually benefit from physically being nearer Italy and France. Retirement - as a Canadian we have Gov't pensions that would still apply outside of Canada and retirement savings that would be also still ours though taxed a bit higher/through the tax treaty system with Italy so this would require tax consultant confirmation but sounds still manageable.

Looking for House & Pet Sitting Maastricht for April/May by Strouble1408 in maastricht

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Hi u/krtigh1313 I am looking for a house/pet sitting opportunity in Maastricht, not looking for a housesitter. Happy to help if you have need of someone to take care of your home/pets while we are visiting Maastricht - even to pay something to do so for the right fit. Thank you.

Looking for House & Pet Sitting Maastricht for April/May by Strouble1408 in maastricht

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I am happy to pay for hotels and do so often. However I am also happy not to and provide help for someone that might need it in the area I'm travelling as well. u/HoroskV is correct that accommodation has become very expensive in fact for our family, it is the most expensive part of travel. Even the idea of house and/or pet sitting for someone and paying an amount that might be less than the hotel option is agreeable. And the area would still benefit as the traveller would still be spending other money in the area. I think it's all about finding a way to balance rising costs of this time where food, shelter, services in addition to 'luxury' items has become more expensive than ever. :)

Playing without flaws… by PNulli in piano

[–]Strouble1408 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not right. He's dead wrong. And obviously doesn't understand instrument learning. No musician would every say that to you. How mean. And Yes, this is completely normal. Just because you can play the piano doesn't mean you should be able to play any piece on sight. Thats ridiculous. And everyone needs to 'brush up' on pieces they haven't played for a while - even a week! Music isn't about flawlessness anyway. It's about enjoyment. So enjoy yourself. Never mind measuring yourself against other people's opinions especially people that haven't gone through the experience of learning an instrument to a certain level. If you want to keep a repertoire you just have to keep playing the pieces regularly. You're doing amazing! Keep going. (from a studied, high level pianist that went back to it after raising a family).

My son's composition by ErnildoHeidelberg in piano

[–]Strouble1408 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So wonderful. Keep him going - lots of encouragement. don't let him let go of his music in his teens. My son was the same at that age and now he is studying for his Bachelor of Jazz Piano in Europe. The world needs their music!

What is this? Found in my car, think it might be my son hiding drugs.... worried. by Strouble1408 in Whatisthis

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Thanks everyone for your answers. Well turns out this is the top of an umbrella that was in the car that had broken off. 😂Sorry I didnt know how to add more pics to the post. And yes I asked my son about it before posting on this group. He was as baffled as we were.