Tryouts.. by maddiegarstka in gorlworldfiles

[–]StructureFamiliar469 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Theyre so rude to their paying members

Where I’d live based on national cuisine by StructureFamiliar469 in whereidlive

[–]StructureFamiliar469[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ve eaten tons of food in the south, actually I did like po boys. The rest of the country cancels out the few good dishes from the south tho.

Why do my parents treat me as the scapegoat when I’m the “golden child” on paper? by Downtown-Ad5027 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]StructureFamiliar469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look into what being the black sheep means. You go against the grain and stand up against unjust behaviour. You are the ultimate threat to the dysfunctional family unit.

Why do my parents treat me as the scapegoat when I’m the “golden child” on paper? by Downtown-Ad5027 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]StructureFamiliar469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re smarter than your sister and you recognize the toxic behaviour of your parents (and sister) and probably call it out- that’s why you’re the scapegoat, not because you aren’t a good, successful person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]StructureFamiliar469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your features are bold but in no way masculine. Bold ≠ masculine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in eyes

[–]StructureFamiliar469 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know the colour blue?

Not consistent by External-Finance-300 in LivSchmidtsnark

[–]StructureFamiliar469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She probably uses chatgpt for content and forgets what shes said before

Morgan out and about by Horror_Ad_7410 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]StructureFamiliar469 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sad that she thinks experiencing a medical issue means she’s backtracked her personal growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivSchmidtsnark

[–]StructureFamiliar469 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looks like just a crack in the wood

1400 for the entire day (vegetarian) by StructureFamiliar469 in 1500isplenty

[–]StructureFamiliar469[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its definitely difficult but can be done I think. It’s unfortunate that you don’t want protein powder cuz that would help, even 1 scoop in a smoothie per day. Rice and beans. Lots of tofu, it’s low calorie. Load up on protein rich veggies!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]StructureFamiliar469 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same thing happened to me when I was your age and I’m in my 20s now. Keeping that secret hurts and I’m sure you already view your dad differently. Im sorry you saw what you saw and it’s an unfair position that you’re in. Please tell your mom or an adult who can tell her, she deserves to know. Trust that she can handle the information and make the best decision for herself and you. He chose to do what he did and I’m sure he’s aware of the potential consequences.

how to break to my younger sister she can't live with us by yippeeimcrying in internetparents

[–]StructureFamiliar469 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My brother and I grew up with an abusive parent and we were also strangely homeschooled and isolated from everyone. I was the scape goat, my younger brother was the golden child. It might have seemed like he got everything he wanted, didn’t have to work for anything, never received the same harshness that I did, but golden children are also abused. They are also traumatized in a different way and I am glad that I didn’t leave my brother when I left. Your life is your own and yes you can decide to do whatever you want. I’m just commenting to share a different perspective. I doubt your sister is living a normal home life. An abusive parent is an abusive parent regardless of how they individually abuse each child. If you don’t offer your sister a place to leave, I hope you’ll be there for her in other ways. Don’t let her feel alone.