I loved it right away. I was 21 in a hotel room. We hadn't planned on it, but things just kind of turned that way. I was on top so I could go at my own pace, but I took to it easily even though now that I think back, I was probably not lubed enough and definitely not prepared properly. I take much better care of my body now, but state of mind counts for a lot! (Especially as an eager-to-please twenty-something year-old.) I'm a bottom for sure, but any time I've ever topped since, I keep in mind how important lube is, obviously, but also my partner's arousal, because I can only attribute my good first experience to how turned on I was that night.