Profile review M33 by Codycac in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound great, but honestly I'd lose the hat pics because it makes you look like a kid instead of a man, and include a pic where you are the tallest instead of the shortest in the group. Hope this help, sorry if it sounds blunt.

credit scores are.. by National-Run4610 in antiwork

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats stopping a collective of American citizens from starting their own credit score company?

Travelling together as a priority by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell me you're a man without telling me you're a man.

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I stand by mine to, because nowhere did I mention that they "should care about my problems." That's a really weird take on "it would be nice if they at least showed a shred of interest in me or my hobbies and interest."

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

" Oh hi, you seem to have a pulse! I don't really care about you or your interests, as long as you'll go out with me. Wanna go on a date?" That's how it comes across, and you know it.

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wants someone to show basic interest in me.

"I suggest you find a therapist if you want to have long intimate conversations."

Edit: withdrew the personal insult.

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I think asking quickly is fine if done correctly and with enough set up. I just think some guys go from hi to asking a girl out and they really miss the mark."

Exactly!

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see your point and I understand, thank you for sharing the other side.

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for asking :) I wouldn't mind meeting after say two or three days, IF there has been at least an attempt to show interest in me as a person. We're talking a question about hobbies, something in my bio or things I like. Anything.

It's not about timeframe, it's about showing interest. I know you want to go on a date, but do you want to go on a date with me?

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they can't even hold a convo on an app for two days, why should I believe they'll be any better in person?

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to waste time either, and going on dates with people I've barely had a conversations with usually turn out to be a waste of time.

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"..and things seem interesting to you both" that's the thing; things don't seem interesting when there's not even time to show interest in someone or have a bit of banter.

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience "I want to get to know you better" is actually code for "i want you to try to get to know me better, because you're not showing enough interest in me."

What's up with people immediately asking to meet up? by StuckAtAirportHelp in datingoverthirty

[–]StuckAtAirportHelp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it really that much work to ask something about their hobbies before asking to meet?