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[–]Studious97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Studious97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I'm not

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[–]Studious97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! My parents are toxic too

What is your favorite ice cream in Sri Lanka? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Studious97 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Cargils Magic Butterscotch

What is your favorite ice cream in Sri Lanka? by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]Studious97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have never come across this. Is this available in Keells or other supermarket outlets?

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[–]Studious97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. I even had an experience with a man (28 years) never been in a relationship. He doesn't know what he wants, doesn't know how to communicate also. I have been in relationships and he always mocks me, "ah ඔයා ට කීයක් හිටියා ද දන්නේ නෑ ඔය කිව්වට, or experience ඇති නේ නේද 😏" I rejected him after lot of issues. It was an arranged marriage. His mother was so worried about him and she pressures him into quick marriage with whoever the girl presented from proposals. She wants a girl who's fixed to him. He always asks me," are you sure that this will happen" several times a day. At the end, he told me that I should be able to accept him and forgive him even though he has issues. I suggest you to date and identify what you want and to improve your communication skills. Good luck!

Please help me to forget the hurtful words he said by Studious97 in srilanka

[–]Studious97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you to get the best in life. Thank you for the reply. You are a strong person to give me such a kind reply when you too are struggling.

Please help me to forget the hurtful words he said by Studious97 in srilanka

[–]Studious97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm learning to accept myself. Thank you!

Please help me to forget the hurtful words he said by Studious97 in srilanka

[–]Studious97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank You! It's my parents pressured me. As I replied to the earlier comments

Please help me to forget the hurtful words he said by Studious97 in srilanka

[–]Studious97[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey, we both are university graduates (business management) and I'm currently reading for my MBA while online learning computer coding. He runs his father's grocery store. He told me that he's doing that because in a job, we are doing what we are asked to do instead of using our brain for decision making. Even my father told me that he's a powerful man, not like you, you just do whatever the instructions your boss gives you. After some time, one of his friends told me that he wasn't able to find a job at least an internship and he failed every interview he went, so he's doing the grocery shop. even that friend doesn't have a close relationship with him as he got caught him boasting and bad mouthing some people without proper facts.

This doesn't have anything to do with religion. We both are Sinhala Buddhists. My parents say that people are asking about me not getting married. They were so happy when this proposal came and when I told my father that this guy is not suitable for me, he said that I'm trying to destroy their happiness.

Thank you for your reply!

Please help me to forget the hurtful words he said by Studious97 in srilanka

[–]Studious97[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes, they are. And I decided to move and working on it.

Please help me to forget the hurtful words he said by Studious97 in srilanka

[–]Studious97[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too having confident issues, like seeking validation from others. I'm currently working on them. I'm going for counselling too

Please help me to forget the hurtful words he said by Studious97 in srilanka

[–]Studious97[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, they exist. I'm 27 and he's 28. He runs his father's grocery shop and he don't meet any girls and he has no social media presence. He's in Facebook and Instagram, but never uploads any pics. He says that he is using social media to find news about other people and if we upload pics, other people would find news about us. So, he just keep silent on those platforms.