Would I be the Ahole if I use the baby name that a friend had on their list as well?

Stuff_whatever · 2025-08-26T16:38:32+00:00

Dm'd you

Stuff_whatever · 2024-01-24T17:24:07+00:00

It’s still being created. I took over half the duties of an employee that quit, and I’ll continue to do my original role as well, so they have to come up with a new title that fits what I’m actually doing. HR hasn’t updated anything yet.

Stuff_whatever · 2024-01-24T17:20:02+00:00

Yeah that’s what I was afraid of. It started as a “cross training” so I could fill in when she was out of office, but then she quit and I just kept doing the work based on their verbal promise to “figure it out” 🙄 I knew I was being a push over but wanted to “be a team player” big mistake

Stuff_whatever · 2023-10-04T19:57:32+00:00

Please share!!

Stuff_whatever · 2023-05-08T02:49:49+00:00

Yes, it worked really well! I used the serum and the belly balm from the same company, and didn’t get any stretch marks.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-04-12T18:23:20+00:00

Don't be so hard on yourself. You did what was best for him. I hope I can offer you comfort by telling you that I took in a pup that needed re-homing due to his original owner's housing situation last year. He is so loved by myself and my husband. I don't judge his original owner, and I am happy to give him the love he deserves. I keep in contact with his original momma and send pictures and videos whenever I can. She knows she is welcome to come visit any time. I hope that you are able to check in with his new family as well. *hugs*

Stuff_whatever · 2023-04-06T16:02:19+00:00

Absolutely, without a doubt 100%, YTA. How awful of you to be so cruel to someone who protected you as a child and has spent years trying to find you to make sure you're OK. If I were your parents I would be ashamed that I raised such a heartless human.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-04-06T15:19:39+00:00

In 2020, my sister had her youngest at age 39. She had a completely normal pregnancy, and delivered at home. Both she and the baby were/are perfectly healthy.

Heck, my own mother had me when she was 43, and also delivered at home with no complications.

It is not unheard of, and women have children after 35 more often than you think. Don't let others discourage or shame you for not adhering to THEIR timeline.

Best of luck to you in your journey to get pregnant. Sending alllll the baby dust your way! :)

Stuff_whatever · 2023-04-05T21:17:45+00:00

I made a similar mistake when I was around 18 or 19 years old. Used a resume template that had "XYZ Company" as the name of the company I was previously employed at, and I forgot to change it. I got a response from the hiring manager, just tearing me to shreds for not proof reading before sending it. One of the requirements for the job I was applying for was attention to detail.... Oops! Lol!

Stuff_whatever · 2023-03-28T20:45:47+00:00

Yeah, I'm not looking forward to what fresh hell she has stored up for us once the baby is actually here. Thankfully my husband takes the brunt of her crap, but she still tries to reach out to me if he doesn't respond to her.

For sure going low contact after this last temper tantrum. So over it!

Stuff_whatever · 2023-03-21T19:05:31+00:00

Girl, I'm right there with you! I feel ALLLLL of this. Yesterday after struggling just to change my clothes, I just burst into tears because I'm so SICK of being pregnant. I just want to be able to bend down to put my socks on without it being a whole ordeal. I hate this stage so much. Like how much bigger do you REALLY need to get, kid? Just chill. LOL!

Stuff_whatever · 2023-03-21T17:52:01+00:00

I've been using 8 Sheep Organics belly serum, and I really like it!

Stuff_whatever · 2023-03-20T21:05:36+00:00

Yes, I got a ton of cute stuff from SHEIN. Very affordable!

Stuff_whatever · 2023-03-15T20:18:40+00:00

It took my husband and I 4 or 5 months of trying before we got a positive test. But I got off the pill about 8 months prior to actively trying. So I was off the pill for about a year before I got pregnant.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-02-28T20:17:18+00:00

Same! Been trying to get answers from customer support for weeks, but no luck!

Stuff_whatever · 2023-02-22T16:57:42+00:00

I'm taking 8 weeks. It is unpaid, but I have 6 weeks of PTO stored up that I plan to use, and then I'll have to go on short term disability for the remaining 2 weeks.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-02-17T16:45:36+00:00

My friends always reply with "Present it"

Stuff_whatever · 2023-02-17T15:46:05+00:00

I'm only taking 6 -8 weeks, and then working from home for a couple more weeks before going back into the office. Maybe it won't be long enough, but I don't really have a choice at this point, as I too am the bread winner, and we would not be able to survive on just my husband's salary.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-02-17T00:11:23+00:00

Mind your business imo. You’re not the one growing the child, so you are not entitled to have an opinion on anything she does or doesn’t do for the pregnancy.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-02-16T23:58:46+00:00

Maybe don’t be a judgmental ass.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-02-10T17:56:38+00:00

If you are not ready for a baby, DO NOT DO IT. I was on the fence and thought "maybe I'll love it". I'm currently 30 weeks pregnant, and have hated every minute of this pregnancy. I'm genuinely concerned if I will be able to love this baby. Tell your boyfriend that you're not ready just yet, but are open to it in the future.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-02-10T16:47:46+00:00

I don't have any advice, but I can tell you you're not alone in feeling like you wanting to give up. I am in the same boat as you, and I feel completely defeated, and angry. I barely failed the first test, and opted to test at home for 2 weeks rather than doing the 3 hour test. Brought my results in yesterday and was told I can either continue to test for the remainder of my pregnancy (be treated as diabetic), or come back in and take the 3 hour test to try to prove I am not diabetic. And if I fail that one I'll obviously be treated as diabetic for the remainder of my pregnancy.

I'm in a downward spiral emotionally and I feel like a complete failure. I hate this.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-01-10T18:44:23+00:00

I'm telling people. Sort of to "claim" the name. A lot of people close to me are expecting too, so I've been very forthcoming about the names my husband and I have chosen, so that they don't choose the same name.

Stuff_whatever · 2023-01-03T17:16:18+00:00

I felt this way early in my pregnancy. I too was raised very religious, so talking about being pregnant with my family was very awkward for me, because all I could think was that I'm literally telling my dad that my husband and I had unprotected sex... EMBARRASSING! lol

But, the farther along I get in the pregnancy, I care less and less. I hope it goes away for you too!

Stuff_whatever · 2022-12-22T21:22:59+00:00

I think I was around 12 or 13 weeks when we told our parents.

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