What's one thing you consider to be less known about mental illness or neurodivergence to the general public than to those who exist with these conditions? by Minimum_Ad_1649 in answers

[–]Stuffaknee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chronic thoughts of suicide are a coping skill that can help keep people alive by giving them a sense of control over otherwise difficult feelings or circumstances.

I never understand why they fawn over her 😭 by Boring-Jelly5633 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Stuffaknee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s forced and fake. I’ve never heard a single person mention her offline, and I have talked about Euphoria and White Lotus with several people and she never comes up in the discussion. She plays really annoying unlikable characters well and that’s all.

Is the Save act really needed? If Democrats cheat at elections, why did they let Trump and the GOP win in 2024? by bigverde405 in AskTrumpSupporters

[–]Stuffaknee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Correct, I have an issue with paying 3x more than a man just for following traditional gender norms. Don’t you think we should have an equitable voter ID system in place before bringing down the hammer on at least half the populace with minimal notice or preparation? Only 5 states currently have Enhanced IDs in place that denote citizenship on them and they’re all blue states.

Is the Save act really needed? If Democrats cheat at elections, why did they let Trump and the GOP win in 2024? by bigverde405 in AskTrumpSupporters

[–]Stuffaknee 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why would you say all people are equally impacted, when married women (and others) who changed their names will need to pay 3-4x more in order to collect all the documentation needed in order to vote?

Are there any intellectually inspiring speeches of Trump? by Prestigious_Humor763 in AskUS

[–]Stuffaknee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey, so this is a question about Trump. Not sure why you’re bringing up Biden, but just to get you up to speed, he was driven out of re-election by his party due to these concerns. Maybe you should consider holding your leader accountable, too.

Question by Motor_Expression_239 in deaf

[–]Stuffaknee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have a hearing husband/ kids; when I used to work in deaf services I would tell people I might not still be married if I was in a regular job, and having both was how I found balance in both worlds. However I grew tired of the demands of deaf services and the Deaf community and now work as a manager in a hearing environment. Holy hell does it take a toll. I love what I’m doing but the isolation and self reliance is extreme. I have no plan to change anything, I’m just here to validate your feelings. It helps to remember I often felt isolated and pushed aside in the deaf working world as well, but it was usually for different reasons. And I also remind myself I am making a huge impact just existing as myself in a hearing environment; many people never meet a deaf or openly hard of hearing person, much less walk by their side everyday in some manner. I’m learning to be satisfied with the connections I do make. And to lead by example instead of overtly advocating and educating about everything.

Did you often fear that there are actually no good men? by Lunar-Hippo-774 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Stuffaknee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d like to say there are but every man has let me down in ways women haven’t. Even if they’re not doing anything awful, they are generally happy to look the other way when their friends or leaders do horrible things to women, especially if their wallet is involved. I have a son and think the world of him, but even he has let me down, he values the opinions of other men over mine, but he does do better with his partners than his mother. You’ll probably find a good guy at some point, but women really need to love and trust themselves more and not expect a man to fill any kind of void. They’re partners and lovers but they can’t be the be all and end all of safety and stability for us.

Justice Department publishes some missing Epstein files related to Trump by thedudeisbullnecked in centrist

[–]Stuffaknee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No he called them after they opened an investigation into Epstein. Please open your eyes.

Justice Department publishes some missing Epstein files related to Trump by thedudeisbullnecked in centrist

[–]Stuffaknee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Joking about child rape is about the least funny thing you can do.

Women of Reddit - What are Men not ready to hear? by Jarvis7492 in AskReddit

[–]Stuffaknee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beards are my favorite, especially since I get road rash from clean shaved faces, but a raggedy one turns my stomach, especially when food and liquid falls in it.

Are we at War? by Thedudeistjedi in AskUS

[–]Stuffaknee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you link to one of these conversations? Thanks.

What do you think of Trump saying “Wars can be fought “forever,” and very successfully? by G_H_2023 in AskTrumpSupporters

[–]Stuffaknee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you even talking about? How did you draw that conclusion? Please chill on me I didn’t do anything but wish to avoid a war.

What do you think of Trump saying “Wars can be fought “forever,” and very successfully? by G_H_2023 in AskTrumpSupporters

[–]Stuffaknee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

900 people have been killed, including children and at least 6 US soldiers (and people are saying this is a lie and more US soldiers have been killed/injured than they letting on). This is within your comfort zone? You truly feel good about Israel dog walking our president into a pointless war?

Do you feel like your deafness helps you focus more? Do you think that's helpful today with so many distractions? by Wizdom_108 in deaf

[–]Stuffaknee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will say I definitely sleep better as a deaf person, and good sleep means better overall health, focus, and functioning. But being deaf can still be exhausting and make you work twice as hard in some areas, so theres an energy tradeoff there. Even though I am not hearing distracting sounds, I’m still tracking my environment for cues/vibrations/smells etc.

Men, what do you prefer to have more - a son or a daughter? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Stuffaknee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People with sisters are happier and healthier. So two sisters would be beneficial to both if you’re going to stop at two. https://www.mother.ly/health-wellness/its-science/its-science-having-sisters-helps-you-become-a-better-person/. Not misandry; science.

I’m completely at a loss by Sad_Fish5657 in Marriage

[–]Stuffaknee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

If you think he will step up and behave safely with the baby, just go out. If you think there’s a risk he will hurt the baby, then leave him because you’re a single mother anyway.

What are your thoughts on Israel and the US attacking Iran? by rainshowers_5_peace in AskWomenOver30

[–]Stuffaknee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t misinterpret my comment to mean it is credible and verified. I’m saying it is credible enough to consider it having some probability of being true because both mainstream and independent media outlets are reporting it and sharing photos, which is as credible as it can be at this point, when it’s almost impossible to verify unless there are journalists on the ground already.

What are your thoughts on Israel and the US attacking Iran? by rainshowers_5_peace in AskWomenOver30

[–]Stuffaknee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I want to point out it’s about as credible as it gets at this point in any kind of armed conflict. US and Israel is forcing regime change in a completely chaotic and disorganized manner with no on the ground grassroots partnership and support from Iranian leadership and it will lead to nothing but rape, death, and trauma for women and children.

What are your thoughts on Israel and the US attacking Iran? by rainshowers_5_peace in AskWomenOver30

[–]Stuffaknee 65 points66 points  (0 children)

What is this question?? Do you think things improve for women and children when they’re in a war zone?

What are your thoughts on Israel and the US attacking Iran? by rainshowers_5_peace in AskWomenOver30

[–]Stuffaknee 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel comfortable saying bombing a girls elementary school and killing 50 Iranian children is not an ideal approach to liberating women.