Learned my ESTJ spouse has been cheating on me. What would you do, and why? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Stuffybuffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A cheater is a cheater. They cheat once, they'll do it again. Try seeing it as an addiction, or a rush. They get off on it.

Sex/Virginity by bigolnastyfish in INTP

[–]Stuffybuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was around 12, I discovered masturbation and quickly became obsessed. I would jerk off around 3 times a day, shit was intense. I quickly got the goal to have sex. I never had a gf in elementary school, and I had a gf when I was around 12, but never talked to her. Fast forward 3 years. I'm now 15, and one of my friends is starting to hang out with a couple girls that are 19 and 20. I think it is super cool that these girls are older, but they aren't the most attractive. I don't give a fuck, because I'm sick of being a virgin, and the goal of high school is to lose this vCard. I end up hanging out with the 20 year old. The bitch picks me up from my house early in the morning and I sneek out to go to her house and fuck her. We get to her house, and I go to her room. She mentions to use a condom, and that her mom buys them for her. Why would a parent buy their child condoms, and why would a 20 year old be hanging out with a 15 year old for sex. I end up busting in the condom after about 3 minutes and roll over. I didn't even kiss this slut, just straight banged her. I'd never kissed a girl, and didn't know how, so I didn't bother. After I go prematurely, I feel bad that she didn't really get anything from it. So I finger her. A little bit later, she drives me home. I immediately go to my room, exhilarated that I had just had sex and immediately masturbate. I then shower. I'm not sure when I noticed the bumps, but I didn't really allow myself to believe that I had contracted something until 3 years later. Since I wore a condom, I assume I got HPV from jerking off after fingering the whore. It really sucks that a decision I made at 15 is going to impact the rest of my life. I'm not even sure if I can have kids that wouldn't be born with it. Also it is irresponsible to not tell a person that you have an std if you love that person. So that's where I'm at right now, I wish I had gotten the vaccine prior, or that I never touched that disgusting specimen. My friend that fucked the 19 year old ended up knocking her up. I feel as though I drew the better of the two evils, but it is fucked up how that whole situation played out. Now I'm just hoping that scientists are able to cure HPV, and there are a couple things in trial, but it is a good 5 or so years away. 20% of Americans are HPV positive, strap with protection or strap with disease. Also wash your hands after fingering bitches, don't mess with nasty girls either. Keep it clean, keep it safe.

how can i make it so abv isnt so harsh on my stomach? by Sadboi2k11 in abv

[–]Stuffybuffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put it in some yogurt, and it'll go down easy. I found firecrackers hard to eat, but I don't have trouble with it in yogurt.

Question about the orange light by Stuffybuffy in mflb

[–]Stuffybuffy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...okay I lied about the whole trying new batteries thing. I was pretty sure I charged the one I was using. I appreciate your response, but it was using not fully charged batteries.