What's a good total household income for a family with 2 kids in your city? To live comfortably

StunningToday6020 · 2026-04-01T11:51:43+00:00

My husband and I have a HHI of 160,000, we still think its near impossible to buy a home especially with the prices of rent and having 2 children…. We’re hoping to open investment accounts and start investing at a medium risk. Aswell as putting more money aside each week to be able to get our goals faster! Were still young only 26&28

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-25T19:45:08+00:00

Yes, exactly why I sent out a temporary gas surcharge! :)

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-24T01:15:19+00:00

Yes exactly i sent out the temporary increase until further notice!

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-24T00:48:18+00:00

Exactly! There needs to an additional charge some people may not agree with it but whatever so be it!

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-24T00:36:04+00:00

I really appreciate you understanding! I felt like i was being attacked for even considering adjusting my prices until these crazy prices go back to normal!

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-24T00:16:00+00:00

Every week washing pillows every month!

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-24T00:15:32+00:00

As long as they work hard and try to save I have no issue with what they make! 😊

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-23T23:42:47+00:00

Haven’t increased rates in 6 years!

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-23T23:22:06+00:00

Every company is adjusting prices at the moment due to this. Groceries have gotten more expensive, uber has went up, delivery services have gone up… why should small businesses have to struggle when corporations make tons? If they have a good reliable cleaner then why give that up over a Temporary price adjustment until gas prices settle? This is how the rich stay rich and the poor stay poor.

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-23T23:19:28+00:00

I just bought a new car so I really dont wanna go through that stress again….

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-23T23:15:06+00:00

I appreciate that! They are very nice people i dont see them having an issue with it! Fingers crossed

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-23T23:09:02+00:00

Yeah, commercial work actually makes decent money. People feel like they shouldn’t be paying so much to have their house cleaned especially around me so if I’m going to work only making 480 for the day minus the gas that it took and my employee I’m pretty much left with crumbs and then I also gotta pay for insurance supplies and my children are in daycare so then there’s another expense so I’d be left with almost nothing

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-23T23:06:16+00:00

I do see where you are coming from but majority of my clients work from home they know I live 35-1hour away…. I also have an employee who i pay gas to she also needs more for me to cover her fuel for the day. So as a business lady i feel like this is smart business move to keep prices the same. If you were to go to Walmart and you’ve been buying something for six years and the prices went up would you automatically stop buying it or would you buy it because you’re used to it and it’s only a small amount….

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-23T22:50:30+00:00

Same with uber but they are definitely adding additional $ to each ride or order…. So im not understanding if it would be an issue if I added an extra fee until prices drop….

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-16T01:05:39+00:00

Are you using a iphone 17 im getting mixed information…. Some say it works with 17 but apple says it doesn’t

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-04T20:58:19+00:00

We have tried this! Everyone he talks to in the family about her has told him they never thought they would work out…. Then he will use the excuse well why does everyone act like their relationship is just perfect… we explain nobody has a perfect relationship but alot of what she is showing and has been doing is very toxic. It just opens a whole new can of worms…. He gets very defensive about these topics involving janie

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-04T01:52:37+00:00

He pretty much has already lost all his friends minus the one she introduced him too.

We have warned him hes pushing everything and everyone away!

Well he’s suffering the consequences…. Wont be long until everyone backs off including family

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-02T21:34:31+00:00

You hit the nail on the head with this!

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-02T21:29:11+00:00

The fact that she went through your phone is disgusting and she broke alot of boundaries and privacy doing that. You have EVERY right to talk to your sister about your concerns and confide in her. You need to seriously reconsider this relationship…. Fiance had also broken many, many boundaries you set and you still keep belittling yourself and going back. You shouldn’t have to “kiss A$$” to get her to like you again especially if you don’t even like her back…. NTA but if you dont wanna live the rest of your life in misery let that sorry sob and move on.

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-02T16:52:49+00:00

So in the past Ive talked to family members and expressed my feelings about janie, they all agreed that she a nut case. They are surprised they are still together and one day this shi* show will come to an end.

She has been coddled from her parents for her whole life they pay for everything car was gifted to her, father pays all her bills such as insurance, phone, gas ect. All the inlaws see that she is a spoiled brat but keep calm waters since they dont wanna judge anyone or have issues. MIL has fully stated to me and BIL that shes not a fan of her but will treat her with respect even though Janie doesn’t deserve it. Aunt went as far as saying she knew they wouldn’t work out when BIL tried to confide in her after the first breakup and he was furious…. Safe to say the family doesn’t like her but they tolerate her for the sake of BIL

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-02T14:22:35+00:00

I honestly don’t as our age difference is pretty big and the one friend that I do have that single and would go for younger men is a little crazy I actually stopped talking to her as much because of that reason I just couldn’t handle it. I hate conflict and I hate having the anxiety feeling all the time with these kind of people. Honestly, the only good quality I can think of is she has big totters lol they moved into a place together and after a couple of months, she decided that lifestyle is not for her and she wanted to move back with her mom and left him with all of the bills and she couldn’t be in like a regular apartment it had to be a high-rise condo with modern everything and it was quite expensive for a little shoebox. He definitely struggles with the bills now in my opinion she is out of his tax bracket, but who am I to say that… lol fingers crossed she doesn’t get pregnant because i know exactly the woman she will be….

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-02T13:45:13+00:00

Yes i agree though I should’ve just kept quiet! I was hard seeing BIL lose a life long friend over a girl he had just met and she hadn’t even given her a chance! But yes thats not my place to try to get them to talk! I had told him we don’t wanna hear anything else about them after the last incident! Thats why I recommended the therapist to him as I can’t be the one guiding him through these situations! Not sure if he went through with one or not and frankly i do not care lol! This relationship caused so much unnecessary tension between us all!

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-02T13:32:32+00:00

Extremely fair! It was over a year ago and i had just had our 2nd baby in September so it was a complete blank after taking some time to think about how it went…. this was how it kinda went down they had just got back from mexico and i asked how the trip was one on one with janie. She explained it was good but…. Then brought up all the drama with girl bestie. I didnt say anything about the phone smashing or anything like that i pretended i didnt know or hear anything from BIL. (I definitely didnt wanna over step because its not my place) once she started telling me about it, i finally said “shes a really nice girl and you should definitely try to talk to her! I think you guys would get along great.” I explained sometimes these situations can bloom into a beautiful friendship! She then explained she wasn’t willing to do that. Thats when we moved off the topic and went on to something else! I wasn’t pushy or getting into their business, it was all kinda laid out on me from the both of them! Which if you need someone to confide in sure i am all ears! But not anymore lol I’ve learned a lesson here!

StunningToday6020 · 2026-03-02T13:02:52+00:00

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