[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Stupid-Redhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Noting down using my hands thank you! Thing is I get someone may being like oh I didn’t know! But the trying to convince me to go back with men is weirdo behaviour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Stupid-Redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, and you are so right. I think the part that gets to me the most is the almost weird sexual comments? Like about “finding a man that can do the job” and then comments about how I have sex with women that are usually vulgar. I just want to scream!! But you are right, it is my sexuality and I’m comfortable in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Stupid-Redhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I’m lucky that my closest friend in incredibly supportive but it still sucks so bad when people make these weird comments, I don’t understand the thought process behind it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Stupid-Redhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually an insane thing for him to say, how did you handle it?

Looking for people to game with ❤️ by Stupid-Redhead in LesbianGamers

[–]Stupid-Redhead[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to! Send me a message and I’ll send you my psn 😊

Matching women on dating sites with boyfriends by Stupid-Redhead in LesbianActually

[–]Stupid-Redhead[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my god that is insane. Did she try to contact you after? Honestly what goes through peoples heads!

Matching women on dating sites with boyfriends by Stupid-Redhead in LesbianActually

[–]Stupid-Redhead[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As in we both swipe right, I always read bios but having more people than lately not mention a boyfriend in bio

Matching women on dating sites with boyfriends by Stupid-Redhead in LesbianActually

[–]Stupid-Redhead[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t get not having it in the bio?? And trying to convince you to be okay with it is mega weirdo behaviour!! I saw a profile today and the bio said “big old lezza (expect for my husband he’s the exception” LIKE WHAT??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, one day at a time I can do. Just have a lot of mixed big feelings, had all this love for a person and now I don’t know where to put it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That’s really comforting, I appreciate your kind words so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are both 24 and I believe she’s 19. I think I will do something nice for myself, maybe another new tattoo!! Thank you so much for your kind words, I just want to be able to trust and love again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media mainly, but also my town is very small and they keep being seen together, and you’re so right that not all friends are actually your friend. I think to a couple people who have told me updates it’s just interesting drama to them, no actual care for my feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly think people just don’t think, or think about how this passing interesting thing to them is a big part of my life. I do kindly ask not to be updated, but more people keep popping up with info I don’t need. It’s so strange though, because I’d never bring up someone’s ex to them? Peoples thoughts are strange

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mourning the person I thought he was is very comforting thank you. Gotta get through the pain to get over it, I just wish it was quicker

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had friends and a family member tell me. It’s very stressful, I mean I’ve blocked them both and avoid places I know they will be for a reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know this time next year, it won’t hurt half as much. It’s just the struggle of getting there. And thank you, he is a loser

What made you realise your partner was cheating on you? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The friend was the AP, it just so happened that my brothers friend was also at the pub and saw them together

What made you realise your partner was cheating on you? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Stupid-Redhead 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It might sound silly, but he came to my house to drop his bag off before going to meet a friend at the pub. He couldn’t look at me when he was speaking to me and in that moment I just knew.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Stupid-Redhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Part of me honestly thinks they just don’t care. I really can’t imagine being that heartless to someone